Tom Foreman | BIO
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Reporter's Note: A scandal at Arlington National Cemetery is probably the last thing President Obama wanted to hear about. But problems, like my letters, sometimes arrive when you least want them.
Dear Mr. President,
I don’t really care what happens to me after I die. I’ve thought about it from time to time, of course, and I’ve had a few funereal inspirations. It would be nice if someone played St. James Infirmary on the piano, maybe with a trumpet too. (Um…probably not the same person, however. That would get a little carnival-ish.) I’d like to have some poetry read; maybe Grass by Sandburg. Or the Cat in the Hat, by Suess. And snacks would be good. But beyond that, I don’t have much of an opinion about the matter, and when it comes around I suppose I’ll have even less to say.
Funerals and burials, I think, are more about the living folks than those who have passed on anyway; it’s how we express our grief, respect, and remembrance of those we have lost. Which is why this mess out at Arlington National Cemetery is so tragic.
You know that I have only the greatest respect for people who put on uniforms to serve our country, and I have a soft spot for military families, since I grew up in one. I think what they do can be unbelievably tough, and heaven knows for many of them that has been particularly true in recent years. The least we can do as a nation is hold up our part of the bargain.
A hallowed burial ground in which graves have become disordered and unmarked; in which remains have been moved amid poor record keeping; and where, to put it simply, families can not count on their loved one’s final, honored resting place being final or honored at all, is just shameful.
I know the Army says it is on top of this matter now and committed to fixing the problems. But you and I both know it should have never reached this point. So here is a suggestion, scribble a quick note to yourself to check up on this situation in a few months and see how it is going. As Commander in Chief, I think your troops might appreciate that; and I’m sure the families of the troops who have gone before will.
Call if you get a moment. Hope you’re having a nice Sunday.
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