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November 12, 2009
Dear President Obama #297: Indecision time
Posted: 11:21 AM ET
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Reporter's Note: President Obama seems to be facing some conflict in his team over his decision on the future of U.S. troops in Afghanistan. Or rather, on his decision-in-the-works. That’s what I’m writing about in my daily letter.

Tom Foreman | BIO
AC360° Correspondent

Dear Mr. President,

The remnants of Hurricane Ida came rolling through town, so I guess you noticed the rain? I ask only because sometimes I get so busy following the news at my office, that I lose all track of the weather. I have a window, but there have been times when I just haven’t noticed if it is raining, snowing, blowing, or whatever until I leave the building. Anyway, I’m writing this at home with the rain still pitter-pattering outside and the dog asleep at my feet. My elder daughter’s high school chorus sang over at the University of Maryland tonight. My wife went, but I couldn’t make it; had to work late. But like I’ve said before, now is not the time to complain about a job. And that goes for you, too. Ha!

Speaking of work, I can’t help but be concerned about some of the reports coming out of your war room about the situation in Afghanistan. One advisor says send more troops, another says no don’t. Yes, yes, I know that every president wants everyone on his team to keep private conversations private, but in DC that’s like wanting a chocolate bar on the equator…it’s messy at best. And I must say that you are not making it easy for all your generals and advisors to keep their mouths shut.

You’ve said you won’t rush into a hasty decision about such a weighty matter. Fair enough. It’s a terribly important step. But leaders really do need to lead. And sometimes when a leader takes an unexpected or unusual amount of time thinking something over, some people start feeling like that leader has gone AWOL.

When you are the head of a team, even if you need more time to work on a decision, you have to send clear signals about where you are in the process, or folks get nervous.

The war is getting more violent, injuring and killing more of our troops; the Taliban is getting bolder; and I think if I rode coast to coast here I’d find precious little public agreement on what precisely our plan is there. And yet, for whatever is going on inside your White House, outside all we are seeing is a big question mark.

Please don’t take this wrong. I have no doubt that you are considering the decision carefully, and obviously at some length. But be careful: Such an approach can easily start looking like indecision. And an indecisive leader can make even loyalists question their decision to follow him.

Anyway, I’ll wrap it up for tonight. Feeling pretty tired. And by the by, have you just lost my phone number or something? I mean, day after day I sit around waiting for the phone to ring. I respect your work and how busy you are, so I’m not going to call you. But I’m beginning to feel like this is a little…just a tad…one-sided. Thoughts?

Regards,

Tom

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7 Comments
7 Comments
Marjorie   November 12th, 2009 8:44 am ET

Tom, I enjoy reading your daily letters. I have never worried so much as I am now with this man at the helm! I'm scared for our country,our troops, our children, and how we are financially ever going to survive too. My god, what is going to become of us?

meenas17   November 12th, 2009 9:11 am ET

Procrastination , indecision , and doing nothing are more riskier than making on the spot decision., and acting rashly.
Rush, decide and act should be Obam's move.
Put a full stop, do not throw a question mark.

Celange   November 12th, 2009 9:24 am ET

It seems that the greatest question that he must ask himself is, "Will this war make our country greater?"... I know the answer to that, and so do millions of other Americans! So, he needs to follow the exit plan he spoke of during his campaign.

Joanne P   November 12th, 2009 10:05 am ET

Medicaid, Medicare...just extend the programs and make it one large program to include the middle class. Why is this so difficult? The negativity centers around the reams of paper that outline an "already been done" health insurance policy.

Conserve' for USA   November 12th, 2009 10:38 am ET

Maybe the president needs to go out and campaign some more since that's what he does best!

Lori   November 12th, 2009 10:41 am ET

He will probably call after he is done thinking about Afghanistan. He will not rush into a call to you.

matronmedusa   November 13th, 2009 10:20 am ET

People just don't have enough faith anymore. In their country, their leaders, their neighbors, and least of all....in themselves. When Obama first came into office, I saw a face of hope, compassion, and a genuine want to do the right thing. A few months into his term, his face changed. I began to see worry, stress, frustration, and exhaustion. I feel sorry for him. He has been confronted by opposition and negativity since he was sworn in, and even the supporters that voted for him slowly began to turn their backs on him. People need to realize that he is not solely responsible for all of the decision making. There is an entire population of officials, advisors and voters that he must wade through before any decision is final. Just because he didn't implement a change he promised as a candidate, doesn't necessarily mean he isn't trying. All we see is what we're spoon fed by the media, so that's all we tend to focus on, and when it's something we don't like the taste of, we get our feelings hurt and lash out like 4 year old deprived of candy.

People need to remember that even though he has the most important job in the country, he is still only human. He will not be able to please everyone. We the people can't even agree on what we need or want as a collective, so how can we expect him to make everything better for us? And, just like the rest of us, he needs support, love, and understanding in order to thrive and feel positive about the decisions he faces. Our country is likened to a large, extended family, and Obama is the father figure. We don't always agree with or understand our parent's decisions, and they don't always make the right ones, but as a family we love and support each other no matter what, and we are there to give each other a helping hand when we see it's needed. We experience ups and downs together, we work and play together, we learn and grow together. Sometimes we bicker, disagree, and get our feelings hurt, but when it comes down to it, we couldn't thrive without each other.

Until we learn how to bring humanity to the forefront of our daily personal lives, we will never have a humane body governing over our daily personal lives. Life is a reflection of itself at all levels. If you observe the way things work on one level, you can be sure it works that way on all levels. Why do politicians lie? Because we all lie. Why are government entities selfish, greedy and corrupt? Because we are all selfish, greedy and corrupt. Why is there a lack of humanity in ruling bodies? Because there is a lack of humanity in the collective humanity. There is only one person you can depend on to start making the changes you want to see in your world, and that's you. Your lives are not the responsibility of a governing body. It's only there to help us get along as best as we can. When you step out of the darkness that is greed, hatred, and selfish desires, only then can you exist in the light that is love, compassion, and humanity. Obama cannot do that for you.

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