If the vote had been in the South instead of Maine I'd look for the Bible Belt influence. Since its Maine though (not saying people from Maine are any less religious) I guess that its a lifestyle they are not that accustomed to and change comes hard in social norms. I have heard it said numerous times today that they young people didn't come out to vote – maybe they would have made the difference. It took the African Americans over 400 years (since the first slave ships here in the 1600s) to gain the rights they have today and yet they still suffer from racism – perhaps the gay community will experience the same – change comes slow if it comes at all.

We do not ban love between two consenting adults. What did Jesus
say? Have we forgotten once again? Support and love eachother,

Lookout! Here comes the anti-christ!

This type of social reform can't be left up to the popular vote. What if desegregation in the South had been left up to ballot initiatives?

It is arguable that, by denying Same-Sex Marriage to couples nationally, that gov. is respecting the establishment of religion, rather than the ultimate principles of equality and liberty– to act and think as one pleases, as long as they're not infringing upon others rights. Question is, whose rights are Same-Sex Couples trampling on by marrying? The institution of marriage is defined religiously by being b/w a man and a woman, which is its origin undeniably. Ultimately, it's society's views that shape laws such as these. As society changes even more, this decision will be overturned. It is inevitable. I think it's time we learn from history and save ourselves the time and energy by getting it done and over with. Onto the next matter, please...

With over 90% of the population of the US being "straight" (why do we have to even say that?) why is it such a surprise at this kind of outcome? Minorities are minorities because they are minorities. Should I repeat that? POPULAR votes are not popularity votes, but rather MAJORITY votes and that has been the 200+ year American way. Gosh! Get over it, liberals! Or would you rather have a Government run state.... like Iran has? Let the so-called common people make the decision for the rest of us–that is, the majority.

As a gay man in a 30-year relationship, I'm always (and regularly) disappointed at my neighbors' attitude toward me and my partner. There's not much I can do about it, other than to be the best neighbor I can be, but when I have a choice about where I'm going to go on vacation or where I'm going to buy something, you can bet that I'll go to (or buy in) one of the few states where I'm considered "equal" before I'll spend any of my hard-earned dollars supporting the economy of a state whre the majority doesn't think I deserve full marriage rights.

ONCE AGAIN THE POEPLE HAVE SPOKEN,,NUF SAID!

Why can't proponents of same-sex unions respect religious beliefs? Marriage is a sacrament, not a government term. In religious text, it is defined as man-woman by the Bible, Torah, and Koran. The government has no right to legislate its definition anymore than is has a claim to Baptism, Last Rites, or any other sacrament. Socially, same sex couples DESERVE their civil right to legal union. There should NOT be a Constitutional Amendment defining Marriage, but one that CREATES Civil Unions, giving them 100% equal rights and protections in the eyes of the law. People who believe that marriage is not for same sex couples are NOT bigots, they have 4000+ years of recorded human history to justify their position. If the Church wants to change the definition, let the Pope, Archbishop, Clerics, and Rabbis do it. In the meanwhile, while we wait for hell to freeze over, grant same sex couples their Civil Rights in the form of Civil Unions. If the gay community wants others to respect their rights, they need to respect the rights of others.

Well, there are very many people that are glad they do not live in Maine and will probably choose not to spend money there, or support tourism there. I am one. It is too bad they do not stand up for others who do not have the same rights. Maine is plain.

The Decleration of Independence : We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal: that does mean Gay Americans. What is sad to me is that in this world of the 21st century. We will have to go back to July 4, 1776 in which you cannot erase or VOTE out Gay Americans They do have the right to marry

Allowing the rights of a minority to be bestowed or withheld by a majority vote is quite frankly, unamerican. It's the role of the American government to protect the minority from the majority. It's one of the founding principles of this nation – equal rights for all.
America is a society with one government, one set of rules and one class of citizen, to section one group out and treat them differently, but expect them to pay the same taxes as anyone else is again, unamerican.

The results in Maine are disappointing, but the bigger issues need to be addressed.

MAINE RULES.

Dear James,
I agree with you about Jesus' command that we love one another. However, think back to the story of the woman who was caught in adultery. Jesus convinced the Pharisees to spare her by pointing out that all people have sinned. He then told her to "Go and sin no more." He showed great love to her, but he did not accept her sin or love her deeds. The Bible clearly teaches that homosexuality is immoral, but it also teaches that we should love others regardless of their behavior. We must not condone that which is wrong, nor equate a person's actions with their worth.

We didn't "Lose" anything, like the Yes on 1 people insisting. We still have each other. We still have our family, our friends, our values, and our dignity. We made a leap forward, we are moving forward. A family is a family. Love is love. We are human, after all.

I think one major problem gay rights advocates has is that they are unable to get the voters to separate a civil marriage from a religious marriage. Judging from the other comments, most people automatically assumes that gay marriage bills equates redefining the definition of a religious marriage and see gay marriage bills as an intrusion of government upon freedom of religion. What the gay community is really fighting for is equal treatment when it comes to civil marriages or how marriages are view before the law, which governs tax benefits, visitation rights, etc. Until the distinction between religious marriage and civil marriages is made clear to the American public, no gay marriage bills will be able to pass by popular vote.

I for one will never understand why religion needs to be brought up at all; this is not a religious issue. Religion does not have a monopoly on the word 'marriage.' There is a huge difference between civil marriage and church-sanctioned marriage. The gays are not asking for churches to do a damn thing, this is all about legal marriage, so what's the problem? Atheists get married, for Christ's sake. Grow up, Xtians, it's not about you.

Three cheers for Mainers; they have managed to protect traditional marriage.from another assault by the gay crowd, thank God. Marriage has for thousands of years been only between a man and a woman. It holds a special place in our traditions as well as those of people around the world. If the gays want the same benefits married people, that's fine with me. Let them have their civil unions, domestic partnerships, or whatever they want to call it. But calling it marriage is like calling a plunge off the high dive baptism.

If people really think that marriage is a religious matter, then it would only be fair to say that men and women who choose to get married outside a religion (for example, at a justice of the peace) can't call it marriage, but civil union. On the other hand, there are religious sects who are already willing to marry same-sex couples within their church. So I think there are problems with saying "marriage is religious, and religions are against gay marriage."

One day – Thankfully – same sex marriage will be legal in all fifty states... It may take a long time...But Justice Will Prevail.

Have to disagree with Keith here. Marriage existed long before any Scripture spoke about it and existed in far more places than Judaism, Christianity and Islam could have reached at it's earliest origins. The origins of the best man, bridesmaids, dowries, rings and various other rituals of union pre-dates the religion of Moses. And since the English language didn't exist 4000 years ago, the word marriage didn't show up in the Bible. In fact, the word came from the French in 1300 from the Latin "maritatus." What Keith refers to is "holy matrimony" which refers only to baptized Christians. As President John Adams declared in the Treaty of Tripoli "America is not, in any sense, founded on the Christian religion" and nor should its decisions about who can and cannot unite in secular matrimony.

It's time to set aside these religious arguments. As soon as marriage offered a legal/monetary benefit in the form of tax breaks and other incentives, that argument went right out the window. Marriage is a union, regardless if that's between a man and a woman. Call it what you want; marriage, civil union, partnership – just let these people have their rights.

I understand and agree that marriage is a religious term, but some religions allow gay marriage, so why should the government interfere? In addition, to the poster who said that the people have spoken_ Was the people's choice legal when biracial marriages that were outlawed? It's discrimination – plain and simple.

To Keith, I agree that civil union laws should be established by the feds to allow for civil unions with full benefits.

Thanks Maine, you've joined 30 other states in burning the U.S. Constitution by allowing a popular vote on an equality issue. Aren't we supposed to be protecting the minority from the majority? Did we vote on the civil rights for African-Americans, or was that decided by the courts? I guess some Americans are just more equal than others.

@Gordo – The Constitution and the Bill of Rights exists to protect society from the tyranny of the majority. Just because the majority of the people believe in or want something, that doesn't mean that it is right. According to your argument, people of other races were only granted full citizenship because the majority of the people wanted them to have it (they didn't), not because it was the right thing to do.

@Keith – Nobody is denying that religious beliefs deserve respect. However, under our Constitution, one person's rights do not trump another person's rights. Churches were not going to be required to endorse gay unions, and a gay couple's marriage does not infringe on the rights of any straight person, regardless of their religious beliefs. But using your religious beliefs as an excuse to limit the rights of another person is in direct violation of our Constitution – specifically the 14th amendment.

Maine made the right choice.

I do not believe that anyone should be treated with disrespect or as less due to their sexual orientation. We are all humans and God's creation. However, I do not believe that same-sex marriage should be allowed. God created man and woman the way they are so that they can have a family by procreating. In a same-sex situation, this cannot be possible, thus a marriage union should not occur.

I completely agree with Keith about the Civil Unions. From what I can tell, the gay community basically want their partnerships to be recognized by the government. That's fine. Marriage is a religious ceremony by nature and only recognized by the government out of convienence. A Civil Union is a government "marriage". I am completely against gay marriage but would be ok with a government recognized Civil Union. As long as marriage was let up to churches to decide who they would marry.

Keith, Marriage is a sacrament only so far as it extends to the church. If marriage were purely a religious sacrament, athiests wouldn't be allowed to marry, as an example.

Marriage gained a second definition – as a government regulated institution. This is easily seen by the fact that anyone who is legally allowed to marry can do so without ever setting foot in a church or seeing a religious leader. Religion isn't involved in any way.

It was the Catholic Church and several other Christen churches that led the repeal of this law in Maine. As for young voters, we haven't got many up here. Most of our youth flee the state after college due to lack of opportunities here.

What bothered me about the whole campaign were the lies put forth by the repeal side. Oh, and ignoring state law on reporting the names of their campaign donors, even after a fed judge told'em to comply with the law. I could go on and on. For being the "moral majority", they weren't very moral in how they ran their campaign.

However, due to the narrow margin of victory in this vote, you'll see this issue come up again...and again, just as TABOR has here in Maine and the Casino initiative that comes up every few years.

Maybe this is our new economy up here in Maine: Campaign funds from ballot initiatives. Both sides of the Same Sex Marriage issue spent a combined total of over $7 million on this. That would have been unheard of just 10 years ago here.

When can we separate church and state and let consenting adults be adults?

Michael is right. If the slavery and desegregation issues had continued to be left up to the states, and decided upon by the populace, I fear it would have never died. Major civil rights issues have no place in the voting booth. They belong in the court rooms.

We should never condone sin. Same-sex marriage is an abomination. God told us to love people but hate the sin. I will never vote for it.

Ridiculous...over it.... a minority's rights should not be up for a popular vote. Thats why we have the equal protection clause in the constitution Gays are just another minority group that we will have to apologize to in the future. Here's a thought....stop discriminating against minorities and all human beings and we won't have to keep apologizing!!!.

I think it's a shame that two consenting adults aren't allowed to marry because their partner is of the same gender. When religious views trample civil liberties, we lean towards theocracy, something that should be unthinkable in a nation founded with the notion of the separation of church and state. Just because a few religions (of the hundreds on this planet) state that marriage is a man/woman institution doesn't give them the right to dictate that belief to others.

I'm so ashamed of Maine and the 53% of the people who felt that they were somehow threatened by a gay person getting married, yet feel no religious qualms about their 3x-divorced straight neighbor, premarital sex or the countless other "normal" practices that fly in the face of Judeo-Christian teachings.

We've made strides, but the folks of Maine just demonstrated that we have a long way to go (and I'm a straight, practicing Christian man, not that it should matter).

There are over 3700+ years of slavery in our history, but no one seems to support that when talking about civil rights and the abolition of slavery. I'm tired of hearing this argument that marriage is today what is was 4000 years ago. IT WAS NOT. Do a bit more research to learn that marriage has evolve into what it is today..not your assumption that it has been the same institution for 4000 years. Marriage has evolved...women are no longer considered property...marriage is no longer the subjugation of women to men..marriage is no longer arranged...what part of that is the same today as it was 4000 years ago?...Marriage is the sacred union of two individuals who love each other and promise 'til death do us part'....Again, what is so alien about that concept when applied to two people of the same sex? Bigotry has no place here...common sense does...And let's be honest about one of the real reasons for this repeal...Most parents are more scared about the prospect of having to talk about sexuality (and homosexuality) than they are about equality...Having equal rights will not confuse or "convert" your children...Get real!

If a popular vote were ever the measure/requirement of civil rights..no African American would have ever been allowed equal rights...no minority ever would...

Following Keith's logic, the government should get out of the marriage business and leave it to the churches. Civil union becomes a contract, pure and simple, and the government (including the IRS) can only go by civil unions. Hospitals and adoption agencies would be restricted from practicing religious discrimination, and most would wind up using civil union as the criterion for power of attorney, serving as an adoptive family, etc. And state governments that ban adoption by gays (for example) would be violating the constitution. Can you see the anti-gay crowd quietly accepting gay adoptions? If not, then it's not just the intolerance of "proponents of same-sex unions" that is at issue here...

Marriage does not exist because a law defined it. Marriage between a man and woman existed long before this election, before Maine, long before the USA. Don't dismiss the popular vote as bigotry nor discrimination just because you don't like it. Every person, whether gay or straight, must be treated with dignity and respect, but that doesn't change the fact that marriage is more than just a loving relationship.

NO ITS NOT NUF SAID>>>>WE WILL NOT STOP UNTIL WE GET FULL MARRIAGE RIGHTS>>>YOU HAVE 4000 YEARS OF OPPRESSION OF GAY PEOPLE>>>NOTHING MORE>>>>YOUR ARGUMENTS ARE RIDICULOUS>>>WE SHALL PREVAILL>>>YOUR OPPRESSION WILL GO DOWN IN THE HISTORY BOOKS AS DESPICABLE>>>>SHAME ON YOU ALL>>>YOU ARE HURTING REAL PEOPLE AND FAMILIES>

To Keith: You say that "marriage" is a sacrament, not a government term. Unfortunately, this is not true - it is both. To accomplish what you say, then the word "marriage" should be removed from all civil legal documents and be replaced by the term "civil union." Civil Unions should then be legalized for same-sex partners (and opposite-sex partners!). Thus, marriage would be purely a religious term, instead of a legal one. But as long as "Marriage" grants persons special treatment under civil law, then it discriminates against same-sex partners. Civil law should not incorporate religious beliefs. Churches, mosques and synagogues should not be required under law to perform or recognize civil unions if they choose not to. But civil law should treat all fairly and equally.

I think it's dispicable what the Mormon Church is doing to our country. Perhaps we should all consider a constitutional amendment limiting Mormon money, travel and influence to Utah so that our 49 other states can make up their own mind on local issues.

Again...., God created Adam & Eve.... not Adam & Steve..!! 'nuff said.

You know, the argument by those who are simultaneously religious and against gay marriage just don't seem to get the obvious fact that their argument is a walking contradiction, which is: STRAIGHT PEOPLE DON'T HAVE TO BE RELIGIOUS TO GET MARRIED. NO ONE IS OBLIGATED TO REPRODUCE ONCE THEY GET MARRIED EITHER. Wow, news flash, right?

Further, the argument of "protecting the children" is another fatal flaw. Those who truly believe children of gay families would suffer by their parents being allowed to marry are failing to recognize that on the contrary, the children are suffering NOW by the majority of the U.S. refusing to acknowledge their parents as equal and deserving of civil rights. Also, let's not forget the many studies that have shown that it is more important to a child's development and psychological stability to simply have TWO loving parents in the home, regardless of gender and sexual orientation, than one parent alone.

Lest we forget all the other things that the Bible, Koran, and Torah say about how to treat women, for starters. There are a multitude of examples in those texts that are no longer interpreted literally. If you want to have your religious beliefs, that's just fine. But those in favor of gay marriage call you bigots because your argument is such an obvious fallacy.

Marriage is not generally a right. If it was, you wouldn't have to go down to the city hall and get a license. If it was, you could marry anyone you like. If it was, you could have as many spouses as you like. It it was, you could be married by anyone, not just someone licensed by the state to perform marriages. There are lots of restrictions on marriage. Not everyone can qualify to be married. It's not a "right". If it was, it wouldn't be regulated by the state.

First of all, the Bible does NOT, I will repeat DOES NOT define marriage as being a man and a woman. The closests the Bible comes to defining marriage is a man and one or more women or a man, his wife and his concubines.

Please people crack the bible open and read it and stop just thumping on the outside of it while taking what your preacher says out of context to use it as a reason to deny certain Americans equal protection under the law....the state and federal law.

Freedom of religion does not mean you have the freedom to force your religion on every other Amercian.

Very well said Keith.

As a native of Maine, I voted Yes on 1.

Being from a small, tight nit community where everyone attends church on sunday, we all share similar views. Religion plays a big part in our society and that is why many Mainers voted they way they did. Up here in Northern Maine, 10 ft from the Canadian border, it is simply how we feel. I personally have no hatred toward any homosexual couple, males or females, but my values and up bringing due make a difference in my life. If you wish to slander or insult, go right ahead. No offence taken. Everyone has their point of view.

I have to agree with Keith for the most part. I would like to see the US government out of the marriage debate all together. It would make more sense to me to follow the example of many European nations and institute a system where the governemt only recognizes Civil Unions, therefore, the religious aspect is removed. Those so inclined can seek out a cleric of their prefered religious belief to perform a religious marriage ceremony. Let's level the playing fieled once and for all and create a true seperation of Church and State.
My partner of ten years and I moved to Canada three years ago where we were instantly recognized as a common-law couple and granted the same legal rights as our neighbors, as far as I know, none of my neighbours was harmed in any way by this recognition, nor, by our ability to live as a legally recognized couple. We hope to celebrate next year by obtaining our Canadian citizenship as well as getting married, surrounded by friends and family. Yes, I said Married.

Another win for the zelots & bigots of the Catholic church, Mormons and other idiots who believe that their rights are bigger than others.

Probably, it is time to start, qutting the churches. I left the Catholic faith last December due to their biases and hipocresy. It is OK for a priest to take advantage of children in the church, however, it is wrong for 2 consenting adults to get married, so they can have equal rights.

Long live bigotry! This country deserves it. As long as we have morons like Rush L. rulling the air waves, we have to deal with this level of stupidity.

The majority of Americns favor marriage being defined as a union between a man and a woman..........in a democracy the majority rules. Got it?

Alright, since everything goes back to " the definition of marriage" let's check New Oxford American Shall we?

marriage |ˈmarij|noun1 the formal union of a man and a woman, typically recognized by law, by which they become husband and wife.• a similar long-term relationship between partners of the same sex.• a relationship between married people or the period for which it lasts ...

Bullet two says, Similar Long Term Relationship between two partners of the same sex... what definition are we changing then? So... I guess once more that idiotic argument is clearly over. If the dictionary, defines marriage as also a long term relationship between two partners of the same sex, what else is the problem here?

Civil rights are not a state referendum issue. Where would we be if we had waited on Georgia to ratify civil rights for blacks? President Obama, it is time to take an even more important place in history! How appropriate for a black man to free another persecuted people!

We are almost there guys and gals!

I'm not "gay" but I think discriminating against them for purely religious reasons is so wrong that it's ..evil.

I'm sick of so-called religious people imposing their primitive beliefs upon the rest of the world.

In my opinion, ANYONE who uses ANY sort of religious doctrine to justify their politics should be vehemently opposed, and exposed for what they are: Pathetic Nutjobs!

actually God created Adam and Steve and Joe and all of us...your arguments are ridiculous.....get an education

Excellent discussion Anderson. I just want to highlight a fact that many refuse to see: Almost 99% of cases of child abuse (physical, mental or sexual) happen in the context of an union between a man and a woman.
Passion and our own fears should not blind reason but they do.
I wish those who worry so much about the welfare of children will show their commitment in other ways too...So much volunteer work is needed.

Maine, another exemple of a majority of bigots. California is no longer the only one!!!

I agree Marc! Nuff said. The people have spoken and yes God created Adam and Eve, not Angie and Eve!

Every man should be treated equally if they want same sex marriage let them its there life to live not yours

If the bible says it should be between a man and women, then that's the way it should be. The author of the bible, for all we know, could have been today's version of J.K. Rowling. I often wonder what this world would be like if the bible had ever hinted Jesus had a male lover. If that were the case then maybe the bible wouldn't be taken so literally!!! I am a gay man and I am not demanding the right to marry another man nor will I ever. I don't need a piece of paper to validate my love. "I now pronounce you husband and wife......you now have a 50/50 chance!" Maybe divorces should be made illegal....now that's a concept!!!

Sure, God created Adam and Eve, and the Tooth Fairy, and Santa Claus, and any number of other fairy tales.

If you're going to participate in an argument about constitutional rights in a country which claims to keep church and state separate, try not to bring your own personal religious views into the argument. Adam and Eve are part of an oral history that was hundreds of years old before it was ever set down on paper by a people too primitive to understand dinosaurs, much less that the earth is infinitely older than they are.

47% – For Equality / Inclusion / Humanity
53% – For Oppression of Minorities

In this, the 21st Century, How DARE 53% of a population be given the right to strip the rights and banish to second class citizenship less than 10% of their population?!?

To those who voted for us, thank you so much.

To those who voted against us, do us all a favor and drop-dead as you are an insult to humanity.

Don't like gays in your life, church, and schools, fine, then stay away from us in your pathetic exclusionary world because we don't like people like you anyway.

But don't dare ask us to cook your food, cater your weddings, beautify your home, or enjoy our many other cultural contributions after you've voted us as sub-human.

You do NOT have the right to limit other people's ability to constructively live their lives in human civilization even if (for now) you have the power just because you disagree with their choices.

I used to think that New Hampshire was the New England state to be embarrassed by for it's conservative attitudes but I see that Maine has taken that title.

Maine... the way life should be... if you want to feel free to oppress fellow human beings.

53% of you are simply disgusting failures as human beings.

We are on this Earth for such a short time, to limit/destroy someone else's ability to celebrate their love and build a family is blasphemy of the highest order.

This is a DISGRACE to Maine and to New England.

I would like to see a CNN segment on the history of this State legislation by proposition. Isn't it just a way around our "representative" form of government. Have "we the people" become a 4th branch of government, writing and passing legislation with a simple majority "thumbs up/thumbs down" vote. Where are the checks and balances? How do we protect the rights of the minority in this process? Very curious.

– john

Marriage has nothing to do with the religion. Religion is a red herring in this argument about equality. I don't understand why people can't understand this. If you cannot grasp the concept that American rights aren't granted on the basis of religion, please stop voting and screwing up the rights of your fellow American citizens. Thanks.

What ever happened to just treating others with respect and the way you would want to be treated? I admittedly fail to fully understand all the reasons the gay community continues to fight for marriage rights. However; I am a person that strongly believes in freedom of choice, as long as it doesn't harm others. I think falls into that category, so let them do what they want.

Marriage is between a man and a woman, that's the law. If a gay man wants to marry he has the right to marry, but he has to find a female partner to marry him. Love is not a legal requirement for marriage. Marriage requires a consenting male (husband) and consenting female (wife), that's the legal definition of marriage, even without statutory law that would be the legal definition of marriage under Common Law.

For you non religious people out there, what right do you have to tell people like me who's religious beliefs are in favor of traditional marriage how we can or cannot vote? Voting is a fundamental right is it not? You don't have a problem with people who's religious views are in favor of same sex marriage voting do you?

I live in Maine and voted no one question one. I am straight and consider myself to be a spiritual, even religious, person. I just wanted to say that although the 53% won the majority, you have to remember that 47% of us were supportive of equal rights. not all people in Maine are against equal rights.
I only know 3 people who voted yes – ALL of my other friends voted no. We were all disheartened by the loss. The churches and out of state groups really influenced this election and the commercials were downright hateful and fear-based.
The earlier comments on separating church and state are 'spot on'. Nobody seems to care if two athiests, or two Buddhists, get married so why do we throw the Bible at gays? Why must all people conform to what the Bible says? If you are a Christian and believe that the Bible is the truth, then that's great. It's YOUR truth. Love by those rules for yourself and for your salvation.
I am not overly concerned with saving everyone around me. Pray for othes if you want but don't discriminate. And anyway, isn't Jesus is all about love? In any form.

In response to Gordo... remember that equality thing in the Constitution? And in agreement with another writer... eventually the courts will see it clearly. The majority has no right to bully the minority.

Only if you are a homosexual you can understand what all this mean. Another slap on the face for all of us. We have been treated like dirt all of our lives for who we are. Science needs to come out loudly and explain what homosexuality is.

This is an argument of emotion, not logic. Arguing logical points will do nothing. Religion is not based in logic. So stop arguing, it's not going to change anything. If people want change, then they will stop talking and be proactive. Everyone on both sides should take this as a lesson and move on to the next battle ground. The sooner we stop arguing about illogical semi-religious statement, and move on to stopping war, disease, and hunger the better off we will all be.

I think everyone working so hard for Marriage Equality will find that this is just the begining. We need to be stronger and clearer with our message. It is interesting to see how these groups (Catholic Church, NOM, and Mormons) want to define how the majority of people "think", even though these groups are nothing but hypocritical about their definitions. Marriage Equality groups need to centralize their efforts and develop resources that can truely compete against the lies, and hate that is being spread.

You have all missed the point a marrage is a union of a man and a woman a family is a mother and a father and children. now you can cloud this issue with accusations of gay repression but it is not people just want to preserve marrage and family. If chose to unite with someone of your own gender then find your own designation for it ours doesnt seem to fit your actions

I keep hearing the words "taking away their rights".
As far as I know the right to marry the same sex has never been established.
My concern is for children, which no one seems to talk about, Everything discussed is me, my rights my feelings. It really makes me shudder when I think of the children growing up either in these relationships, or just having experience with them. What kind of view do those kids grow up with?
. . . or maybe that's the plan, to distort the growing minds until every 'abnormality' is accepted.
To me it's the start of a slippery downhill road.

Ed

As a person who lives in maine I was disappointed at the outcome of yesterdays election. That being said I am PROUD to be from maine and look forward to the day that this is a NON issue and all my friends and family can share the same rights that I have with my wife. Before everyone dumps on the maine voters, I would like to point out that maine as had the closest ballot vote on same sex marriage out of any state that has voted on it. The states that have allowed or allow same sex marriages are states that don't allow peoples veto's, and didn't pass by a majorty vote. As sad as this sounds 47% is a high number of people who want same sex marriage rights for everyone. Soon maybe not soon enough but soon we will be the first state that the PEOPLE say we welcome everyone with open arms. This isn't the last you will read about this in maine but soon we will make sure that all people in maine share the same civil rights.... NUF SAID.

Frustration is character building.

Everyone keeps equating the win (against gay marriage) in Maine with the win in California. However, most people I know in California that voted on the matter believe that the measure was written such that they did not realize they were voting against gay marriage.

What is the over all population for the State of Maine?

The discussion betwen Evan Wolfson and Tony Peterson regarding same – sex marriage was a good discussion. A fair and balanced discussion was well-moderated by Anderson Cooper. Evan Wolfson did a very good job of getting his points across and addressing the idiotic statements made by Tony Peterson in a very factual manner. If Tony Peterson is truly the head of a "family" group, why doesn't he understand that some families consist of same-sex couples?

It looks like some of you who quote the Bible forgot why Sodom and Gomorah was destroyed. Also, what happened and why the Earth was destroyed by water in Noah's time.

After having read most of the what is said on this subject it is very clear that the terms marriage/civil union and separation of church and state are misunderstood. Marriage was established long before government(s) and civil unions. Marriage IS a religious ceremony by definition. It IS the union of a man and a women. Governments established it as a term to legally bind two people as a means of control. There is no place in the Bible that condones the union of two men or two women. It is condemn in both the new and old testament. This is a Fact. Christ did say hate the SIN not the sinner and verified the old testament by quoting from it when asked about marriage.
Separation of church and state was intended that the government not establish a Church religion. Read your Constitution and the words of the Founding Fathers the majority of who were men of faith and had a belief in God though not necessarily Christian (Franklin wasn't but did say "Freedom is not a gift bestowed upon us by other men, but a right that belongs to us by the laws of God and nature")

After all that I still say the right of two people to live together is still their choice (though not a CIVIL RIGHT again read your Constituion) God gave us a free will to follow his commandents. This IS a Republic not a Democracy. A Republic does protect the minority. AMEN

It is a shame that a group of people have come together to take the freedom of a separate group.

I really think Jesse Ventura last night on Larry King hit it right on the head. He said something along the lines. People should not be voting on social issues, if that was the case slavery would have been reinstated a long time ago.

I say let people live they want without the government telling us whom we can and cannot marry. Aren't we supposed to be equals? It appears that people REALLY need to grow up and quit being bigots

Many parents suffer greatly when they discover that they have a gay or lesbian child because of these political decisions. Not giving complete equal rights to any group will make the young people in the group feel embarrassed and inferior.

I just discovered during a visit to Cambridge that there was a time when women were only allowed to take some college classes and they were not allowed to take final examinations and graduate. In the future we will look back at these people who have legally discriminated against others with surprise and shame.

The trend is that the votes are coming closer to passing same sex marriage law. Maybe same sex marriage might help promote safer gay sex and decrease the spread of AIDS? OR may be safe sex and AIDS is a seperate issue? Maybe if prevention of AIDS was taught more widely, same sex relationships would not be so controversial????

Same Sex-marriage and Slavery
Can people please stop using segregation or slavery as a back up of the same-sex marriage argument. Being a black woman myself, I think this is ridiculous! Preventing people in general from having rights and preventing people from deeming their union a marriage are TWO different things. Our people were beaten and cursed and denied rights as humans and not even considered humans. They were sold and captured and not given anything. Gays are considered adults, they don't have to (in a legislative stand point) be beaten for wanting to be recocnized as mere humans. So please people, stop using my people's history to support something totally unrelated. Marriage and someone's humanity are different..

Seperation bw church and state:
Personally I think if they want to have a civil union that is their choice but marriage is established as a sacred union by God and adopted by the government between a man and a woman. Children benefit from having both and they need both. Society is diminishing how vital it is in a child's life to have the male and female.

People want to say there needs to be a seperation b.w church and state. Well the reality is there is no seperation. Many of the laws our country has have been based and taken straight from the bible. (ie. not murdering, not stealing, not lying etc) Man did not come up with these laws by himself. He needed someone higher to establish this because it is not like man to submit to something that prevents him from doing as he pleases. SO you want to argue there should be but there never will be. And I think governement needs as much church laws put in it as possible.

Civil rights are part of governments job and duty in upholding the constitution anyone who says otherwise is sadly mistaken. Go to any county building and witness the amount of people being married by a government employee, not a church leader, and not based on religion but on politics.

Politics that excludes a minority througha vote of a majority is illegal, is wrong and must end. If you disagree, then you cannot agree that a justice of the peace who refuses to marry any couple on religious or personal grounds must be held accountable.

Quit fighting to call it marriage.............if you put a proposition on the ballot to have the same rights as marriage and call it something else it will pass. This obviously is NOT about equal rights, it's about trying to redefine marriage. It is NOT the same thing, marriage is husband and wife. Civil unions with all the benefits of marriage. Civil unions would be partners. Redefining marriage is the problem, not your love or desire to have equal rights.

More and more people are tired of this being shoved down our throats. We dont care how you choose to live your life. It is your sexual preference. This should never have become political. You are not a minority because of sexual preference. No one can make someone believe the way they do. You know in your heart the constitution was written for the good of all. The constitution and the bible both say marriage is between a man and a woman. You will never make true Christians or conservatives change their mind. Trying to force the issue in our schools and ballots boxes only makes us stay true to our morals and beliefs.