Jack Gray
AC360° Producer/Writer
In a way, I now realize, I have always subconsciously considered Ted Kennedy to be immortal. I remember the first time I saw him in person. It was the summer of 1994 and I was at the Yankee Homecoming Parade in Newburyport, Massachusetts, a few miles from where I grew up.
The senator was at the time locked in a tough re-election bid against a little-known businessman named Mitt Romney. From my perch on the sidewalk I heard the crowd down the street start to cheer. And then I saw him. The famous face, the wavy hair, the stylish polo shirt. And then I heard the voice – that inimitable sound.
He bounded down the street with his beautiful new wife Vicki in tow, shaking hands and greeting the crowds in that uniquely Kennedy way. For a teenage news junkie like me, shaking the hand of the man whom I had read about and watched on television for my entire life was a thrill beyond words. He was one of the original political rock stars.
I would come to meet Senator Kennedy a half dozen or so times in the years between then and now, some because of my former job as a television news producer in Boston, others by chance. There was the time I was walking through Boston’s Back Bay with my mother and sister and we came upon the senator standing alone on the sidewalk outside his townhouse, soaking up the sun, waiting for his wife to join him.
He was, as always, incredibly gracious when we stopped to talk with him for a few minutes. He and Vicki were headed, he said, to one of his nephews’ soccer games. For the lone surviving son of Rose and Joseph Kennedy, family always came first. He would often arrive at interviews with a super-sized Kennedy entourage: his wife, his in-laws, his nephews, even his two Portuguese Water Dogs, Sunny and Splash.
For Massachusetts and the nation, he was a constant – there in the good times and the bad. My friend and mentor, the veteran Boston television anchor Chet Curtis, vividly recalls the moment in 1963 when as a young reporter in the Senate gallery he witnessed a staffer rush to Kennedy’s side and say, “Senator, your brother the president has been shot.” Three days later my grandparents and parents watched from Massachusetts as he marched behind his brother’s casket in Washington.
Five years after that they hung on every word as he eulogized his other brother in New York. And in 1980 the country watched as he unsuccessfully challenged President Carter for the Democratic nomination – a challenge that culminated with Kennedy’s stirring “Dream Shall Never Die” convention speech.
The Kennedys may belong to the nation, but Massachusetts natives have always felt that we have first dibs. The family that has been a fixture on the national landscape has been even more of a fixture on our local landscape – Senator Kennedy chief among them. We watched as he sailed with Jackie Onassis and her children on Nantucket Sound. We knew each year he would make a special appearance with his aging mother on the Hyannisport porch to celebrate her birthday. We saw him climb into a waiting Coast Guard helicopter when his nephew, John F. Kennedy, Jr., went missing in 1999.
We got chills, as a fellow intern and I admitted to each other in the summer of 2000, when he walked onto the Democratic National Convention stage to the Orleans hit, “You’re Still the One.” And perhaps my fondest personal memory: handing him a big piece of cake decorated with an American flag when he celebrated his 74th birthday.
The last time I saw Senator Kennedy in person was at the 2008 Democratic National Convention in Denver. Though weakened by his illness, he nevertheless brought the house down. It was a moment I will never forget.
Ted Kennedy was, of course, not everyone’s cup of tea… or chowder, as he would probably prefer it be described. Indeed, he had his flaws. But even his harshest critics will acknowledge he was a tireless and effective senator for the people of Massachusetts.
Perhaps to no issue was he more dedicated than health care. Today Massachusetts is reeling from the news that Ted Kennedy’s fight for health care has come to an end.
| Annie Kate |
August 26th, 2009 12:39 pm ET Jack I envy you for meeting Ted Kennedy and actually being able to talk with him. You said you always kind of thought of him as immortal; I always hoped he was. When he spoke, he like his brothers inspired the listener, and he sounded so much like his brothers that you could close your eyes and just listen and hear the same cadences and vocal overtones that were typical of JFK's and RFK's voice as well. What impressed me the most about Ted was that even though he put in a full day of work, diligent work in serving the people of Mass. and the nation, he would hardly ever miss a school event, a recital, or some other family event for not only his own children but for his neices and nephews as well. HIs brothers having died, Ted took on the responsibilities of a father figure to their children and somehow with all those children balanced the family life and the work life as graciously as he did everything else. You knew what was important in Ted's life because he lived it. His eulogies of his two brothers and of John Jr. all emphasized that they had been given every gift except the gift of years. Even though he had massive responsibilities, Ted was given the gift of years and he made the most of it with his work and with his family. I just wish it had been a few more years before he left us – he will be missed. |
|
| Gayle McCauley Malden,Mass. |
August 26th, 2009 12:41 pm ET Thank you for this,Jack.As a native of Massachusetts myself,I know exactly what you mean when you say 'The Kennedy's belong to the nation but we get first dibs...' Perhaps it's that we are familiar with the surroundings that they lived in.We have walked the same beaches,seen the same sunsets,smelled the same ocean airs.Those simple actions help me to relate to the spirit of the family.I'm glad you have some nice memories with Ted.His passion and commitment to the Commonwealth will be sorely missed.I don't think anyone will ever be able to fill his shoes...ever. : ( |
|
| Martina Ilstad Germany |
August 26th, 2009 12:42 pm ET Maybe this is the end of camelot,but Sen.Ted Kennedy shows us the right way.I am German,but i am deeply sorry for his family,and for the American people,too |
|
| Lilibeth |
August 26th, 2009 12:46 pm ET Hi Jack, thank you for that beautiful tribute. You were lucky to have met him. We will all miss him. May he rest in peace. Lilibeth |
|
| Presley |
August 26th, 2009 12:53 pm ET To be brief, I could write an epic passage, The Kennedy name and legend and dynasty is ours, American to the core. Surviving a constant wake of tragedy, public at that, Teddy, our Lion, rallied and created a place for himself. Not just on name alone either, he was his own man and leader. R.I.P. Senator Kennedy. |
|
| Larry |
August 26th, 2009 12:56 pm ET Rose was the only Kennedy I'll ever miss. |
|
| Kimberley |
August 26th, 2009 1:00 pm ET Excellent piece Jack. Thank you for sharing. I am sad that Sen. Kennedy did not live to see Healthcare reform, but I can only imagine the deep sense of loss his entire fanily must feel at his passing. The Kennedy family has lost two of its strongest and most vocal members this summer. It is a sad season indeed. Kimberley |
|
| Larry |
August 26th, 2009 1:05 pm ET Perhaps Mary Jo Kopechne can rest in peace now. |
|
| meenas17 |
August 26th, 2009 1:07 pm ET The kennedy charisma still lingers. U.S, is totally fascinated by the Kennedys. Ted ,the last of Joseph Kennedy's son is no more.His grace and poise will never be forgotten. |
|
| Virginia |
August 26th, 2009 1:09 pm ET After hearing and seeing so many disparaging remarks today, it should be noted that Senator Kennedy's passing should be treated as a high-ranking, long-term member of Congress deserves...dignity and respect. Regardless of your political/personal views; please allow his family, friends, and fellow members of Congress to mourn his passing at this difficult time. Then you may resume your criticism. And, by the way, I am a card carrying member of the GOP. God Bless the Kennedy family at this time, both for Senator Kennedy's passing and for the recent loss of Mrs. Shriver. |
|
| Yoli |
August 26th, 2009 1:13 pm ET I will miss our Lion. My thoughts and prayers are with his family who must be going through a very rough time right now. |
|
| Jeannie Whalen, Philadelphia, PA |
August 26th, 2009 1:13 pm ET Thank you, Jack, for sharing your memories. Your tribute was heartfelt and very moving. |
|
| Gomsu |
August 26th, 2009 1:16 pm ET Hi Jack, Senator Kennedy didn't even mind, he just said okay girls shall we. Yvonne |
|
| Mohamed Kallon |
August 26th, 2009 1:19 pm ET Senator Kennedy was man that will never forgotten for his outstanding jobs around the globe may Allah rest his soul in peace and provide us someone to continue his dream for the people. |
|
| lampe |
August 26th, 2009 1:20 pm ET Virginia: how can you call truthful comments about Kennedy disparaging remarks? Like it or not Kennedy will be not only remembered for the good things he accomplished, but also for the bad things that happened. And, I'm sorry but you can not tell his story without telling both sides of it. While I send my thoughts and prayers out to all his family and his friends, there are still people with broken hearts that happpened along time ago. |
|
| Lynda, Sonoma CA |
August 26th, 2009 1:23 pm ET Thank you for this, it was touching and sent chills up and down as if I were there myself... |
|
| MzsEm |
August 26th, 2009 1:33 pm ET Beautifully written Jack. My grandmother was from New Bedford and the Kennedy's were her heroes. She was devasted at the loss of John and Bobby. If she were here, I'm certain she would feel the same for Teddy. She regarded Teddy as she would a much loved younger brother. She admired his strengths, lamented his all too human frailties and supported his every cause. Avo` Viera passed her love of all things Portuguese, Massachusetts, and Kennedy to her grandchildren. As I mourn the loss of Senator Kennedy, I find that I am also mourning the loss of an important peice of my family history. O deus abençoa-o e mantem-n Senhor Teddy! |
|
| Pati Mc, Camp Hill, PA |
August 26th, 2009 1:38 pm ET Thank you for sharing such personal memories, Jack. Truly a devastating day for the family, the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, and each and every American. My prayer is that in Senator Kennedy's honor the Health Care battle finds a positive end. He was a great man, and will leave us a great legacy. |
|
| Lauren |
August 26th, 2009 1:39 pm ET I grew up in Massachusetts and my father worked on John and Bobby's campaigns. Ted Has worked hard for the working people of America and has done remarkable things. But please remember he choose to let a young woman drown to death to protect his political future. Men of real character do what is right at the moment regardless of the impact to themselves because it would be impossible for them to do anything else. |
|
| Michelle |
August 26th, 2009 1:50 pm ET Jack that is a great memory of Ted Kennedy. Not to long ago |
|
| carolina m moguel |
August 26th, 2009 1:50 pm ET I was follow his carrer 16 years ago, I love the way He serve, and His love for people, no matter nationality. I'm a hispanic woman and of course i speek spanish, and I always remember him siging a song in spanish, His humble caracter and His carisma. Now the Lord enjoy His company. |
|
| ann |
August 26th, 2009 1:55 pm ET Early this morning , i was on the computor and read the news of Sen. Kennedy's passing. Although, we all knew he was ill you always hoped that he would pull through . He passed close to when his sister Eunice Shriver passed. There is some comfort in this. |
|
| shelly drori |
August 26th, 2009 2:07 pm ET Thank you, Jack for this inspiring piece about how the Kennedy family touched your life. As a Legal Alien in the US (I grew up with Thatcher...) I find myself lacking in the history of the Kennedy family, but now i am curious to read and understand more. My family and I happen to be going on vacation to Cape Cod this week so I guess thats a good place to start. |
|
| Chrystal |
August 26th, 2009 2:10 pm ET The Kennedys have always made an interesting read, and this post was no different. Edward (Ted) Kennedy was quite a person, thanks for sharing your memories. |
|
| Tracey |
August 26th, 2009 2:15 pm ET Very nice Jack. Very nice. |
|
| DesireeSimmons/whitefox306@twitter |
August 26th, 2009 2:19 pm ET I remember that he was in the hospital and I said a prayer and Rest friend of humanity... |
|
| KIm |
August 26th, 2009 2:28 pm ET "Don't lean over or touch the rail "but guess who was speaking ? What a powerful speaker for a cause he believed in. The rest of them were boring speakers. Honestly,half asleep listening ready to head for GeorgeTown and Nathans but he'll wake ya up with interest and projection on a cause to listen and stay. We agree to disagree on PL 107-110 NCLB and yet we build on what's working and end what's not. He left a lot of gifts shared because he cared , we get to keep and work on.. Yes,the guard taps you on the shoulder and it's embarrassing. Whatever,finally a speaker not boring and it was Ted Kennedy. |
|
| Caren in Boston (finally!) |
August 26th, 2009 2:36 pm ET I'm really glad you wrote this, Jack, cause it gives us even more insight into Ted's personality. I know everyone will miss him, but perhaps MA the most. He was ours. He represented us well. |
|
| Bradley |
August 26th, 2009 2:36 pm ET Sad passing for sure, but not unexpected. |
|
| Cheryl K. Sask Canada |
August 26th, 2009 2:37 pm ET Thank you, Jack, for sharing your memories. A sad day indeed to lose such a great man. And sad for you too. He made a huge impact on you. |
|
| Rosetta |
August 26th, 2009 2:45 pm ET In Jan. 2004 my daughter signed up to go on her senior fieldtrip to Washington. During that trip we had the privilege of meeting Sen. Kennedy. The students were excited and he took the time out to speak with them and answer a few questions. Though he was busy he allowed the group of us to stand on the steps in the halls of the White House and take a picture with him, a picture I will always cherish. It is sad to hear of his passing, but in his time he accomplished so very much and was loved by a multitude of people. He will be missed. |
|
| Karen Zappa |
August 26th, 2009 2:50 pm ET Very nice,Jack. You're such a good writer! |
|
| Marla Hill |
August 26th, 2009 3:01 pm ET Let's honor his legacy by carrying on the fight with even greater determination. He would have wanted it that way! |
|
| Megan |
August 26th, 2009 3:18 pm ET Thank you Jack great article. |
|
| Larry |
August 26th, 2009 4:08 pm ET It makes you wonder how things may have turned out had Joseph Patrick Kennedy, Jr. survived and entered the world of politics that Joe Sr. had planned for him. But then again, how often does the media ever make any reference to Ted Kennedy’s eldest brother. |
|
| Judy B |
August 26th, 2009 4:27 pm ET Senator Ted Kennedy will be deeply mourned. If all of our politicians had half of his empathy for the common people, we would have a better country. His accomplishments and efforts in public office stand out above all others at this time. Even in death, his last letter showed concern for the need for health care reform. I know, if he'd been able, he would have been there in a bipartisan way to make things happen. We'll miss you, Teddy! |
|
| Jacqueline, NY |
August 26th, 2009 4:27 pm ET I am truly sadden by the death of Senator Kennedy. Though somewhat expected, I am still in shock because I wanted him to make it through and beat cancer. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Kennedy family and friends. Our country will never be the same without him. May he rest in peace. |
|
| Jennifer - Michigan |
August 26th, 2009 4:28 pm ET Wow Jack, What a post – very emotional and insightful. I like your writing style. May he rest in peace. Have a great day, talk to you later. |
|
| Barbara in Boston |
August 26th, 2009 4:32 pm ET Thanks for everything, Teddy. We love you and will miss you. Massachusetts will never be the same. Rest in peace. |
|
| Carol B. |
August 26th, 2009 4:35 pm ET It's sad that he and his sister passed away so close together. However, a family that has known so much triumph and tragedy will most likely rally again. -Having lived with my family in MA & had many generations on my Father's side there, I think of all the relatives who followed the saga from Joe Sr. & Rose, until present day descendants. You wrote a very nice tribute, Jack. |
|
| Isabel Siaba, Brazil |
August 26th, 2009 4:37 pm ET Hi, Jack! Wow! How do you write well. His texts are very good! And today is full of emotion and memories. Very cool ... thanks! |
|
| Bonnie Donahue |
August 26th, 2009 4:44 pm ET What a wonderful article. The greatest way we can honor Sen. Kennedy is by fighting to reform health care for all. He will truly be missed and my thoughts and prayers are with his family. |
|
| Heather |
August 26th, 2009 5:06 pm ET Hi Jack |
|
| Donna Wood, Lil' Tennessee |
August 26th, 2009 5:11 pm ET Thanks Jack. That was really a great piece. I said it this morning but I will say it again, my condolences to the family. Donna Wood |
|
| Lauren--NY |
August 26th, 2009 5:53 pm ET This was lovely, Jack. Thank you for sharing your memories with us. You're too young now, but someday you should write a memoir. I'll be first in line. |
|
| Jan Sheehan |
August 26th, 2009 6:33 pm ET Today, we are all from Massachusetts. I'll never forget meeting Senator Kennedy in the hall of the Senate building in summer of 1969. I was a contestant in the National Spelling Bee and my family and I had broken away from the group Capitol tour to roam around ourselves (you could do that back then.) It turned out to be brilliant idea. We went to Sen. Kennedy's office and his secretary gave my sister and me black and white head shots of him. As we were exiting the office, we saw him walking down the hall toward us, his head down. (It happened to be the one year anniversary of RFK's assassination.) Still, he stopped and took the time to chat with us, sign our photos, and, seeing my Spelling Bee badge, to ask what word I had gone down on. Tocsin. He said he couldn't spell it either. What a thrill! The autograph has now faded (this was before Sharpies) but the memory never will. |
|
| Megan Dresslar - Shoreline, WA |
August 26th, 2009 6:33 pm ET Jack, |
|
| BettyAnn Nacogdoches,TX |
August 26th, 2009 6:46 pm ET Hello Jack, |
|
| Robin Cox |
August 26th, 2009 6:59 pm ET I will never forget watching Senators Kennedy and Byrd tearing at each other on the senate floor; Kennedy, the more passionate of the two this day, each in diametric opposition to the other. And when it was over, maybe an hour or so later, Senator Kennedy put his arm around Senator Byrd and said, "Now Bob, how about we go and get that be-ah (beer)." I think that's the definition of Statesmanship. This country will miss him. |
|
| Tina |
August 26th, 2009 6:59 pm ET I was enthuse watching him on tele at the 2008 convention at Denver. He gave a great speech. I saw him as a true democrat who wanted the best for his people. As sick as he was he made time to deliver a speech. Its good to hear good things about him whiles he was alive. Lets celebrate him. Sen. Kennedy R.I.P. |
|
| Deirdre M |
August 26th, 2009 7:03 pm ET I enjoyed this piece very much. I, too, will miss Ted. He championed most of the movements and issues dear to me. |
|
| Phyllis |
August 26th, 2009 7:22 pm ET I don't think Camelot is dead because the Kennedy's live on and I'm sure that there is at least one member of the clan that will step up and take Teddy's place within the family. And that is what their Camelot has always been about Family first and always. The lesson I have learned from the Kennedys is that all families have the good, the bad, and the ugly in them; but love and forgiveness are the things that will hold a family together through it all. A lesson I hope we all try and take forward with us in our memories of this public service minded family. My prays are with them all in their hour of need and I take peace in knowing that all the brothers are together again and hope their playing a game of football up in heaven. |
|
| Lori, IL |
August 26th, 2009 7:40 pm ET Great post, Jack - Thanks for sharing. To think I remember the day Jack died, the day Bobby died and now the day Teddy died - how sad. |
|
| Mari |
August 26th, 2009 7:57 pm ET No one ever said that Ted Kennedy was perfect nor a saint. He was a sinner..... like the rest of us! @ Larry....... Mary Jo has been resting in peace. Ted Kennedy will be judged by His God, not you! Shame on you. May you rest in peace, Sen. Kennedy! Thank you for over 40 years of service to our nation. |
|
| BHO - fan |
August 26th, 2009 8:07 pm ET @ lampe, GOD HEALS ALL . . . IF YOU LET HIM. . .It's OUR FREE WILL to carry GUILT, HURT AND PAIN for the rest of our lives. OR, we can GIVE IT TO HIM ( god ) And Rest. |
|
| Helen, Reading, UK |
August 26th, 2009 8:24 pm ET Lovely blog as always, Jack. I guess the Kennedys to you guys would be almost equivalent to our Royal Family. Condolences to all of you from the UK. |
|
| @JudyMcCord - Scottsdale, AZ |
August 26th, 2009 8:26 pm ET Wow, so beautifully written! I worked on the Hill during the Reagan Administration and remember how large Senator Kennedy's presence was when he entered a room. I can only imagine being at the 2008 Democratic Convention but I will tell you I sat on my couch and cried like a baby when he spoke. Great piece you have written Jack Gray. |
|
| Larry |
August 26th, 2009 8:27 pm ET @Mari Never said I was judging him, just glad to see her get some kind of closure on a 40 year cover-up. |
|
| Jan |
August 26th, 2009 8:33 pm ET Maybe it's a generational thing, but I can't cannonize Ted Kennedy like others have. I acknowledge that Kennedy has contributed to several major pieces of legislature, but that was his job. Where was he in supporting health care reform in 1993? The "lion" remained notably silent back then. The Kennedy family had many flaws. In 1991 Newsweek described Ted Kennedy as "The living symbol of family flaws." He drank too much and was very much a womanizer. I fail to understand how all those things can now be forgotten. Ted Kennedy is far from being a saint, hero, or legend. It's tiresome hearing the media's hero worship of this man. I guess honesty is a subjective thing. |
|
| Angie-Toronto, Canada |
August 26th, 2009 8:48 pm ET Jack that was a lovely piece. Thank you for sharing your remarkable experiences. I agree with Jan you should write your memoir and I will be right behind her!! |
|
| Mike, Syracuse, NY |
August 26th, 2009 9:08 pm ET @Mari, a persons true character shows when faced with a life or death decision. Ted Kennedy had that moment at Chappaquidick. He let a young woman drown rather than risk his reputation save her. True that only God can decide whether his good works since have balanced the scales. But to me Ted Kennedy will always be the senator who got away with negligent homicide. |
|
| Shepherd |
August 26th, 2009 10:36 pm ET R.I.P Teddy, what an extraordinary life lived. I think he came full circle and had his redemption. I always looked forward to hearing him speak, I also could hear the similiarities with his brothers voice. Imagine the conversations they are all having in the great Kennedy compound in the sky! |
|
| Tikiri de Zoysa-Falk |
August 26th, 2009 11:16 pm ET “Teddy” – as the name evokes – what a comfort and friend you have been to millions… The name Kennedy has been synonymous with politics for over half a century… for valor… for power… for daring… for acumen… for debonair flair… for visionary thinking… for fearlessness and for so much more. Ted Kennedy embodies one of the greatest gifts the Kennedy’s have given: selfless public service… in the spirit of the true “Public Servant”… Ted Kennedy fought, not for what he would benefit from, but for what multi-millions were deprived of – dignity and healthcare, above all. Yes, Ted, who could have languished in his billionaire family heritage, didn’t give into an expedient lifestyle… but fought valiantly, for the short-changed millions : the nations heart overflows with love and gratitude… what a celebration of life yours proved to be – Ted. May inspiration flow into the hearts and minds of one and all. |
|
| ALINE IKUZWE |
August 26th, 2009 11:26 pm ET RIP TEEDY You was a man who stand up for us My haven father Jehovah will keep you with all who was not white,black or others my GOD bless your family. we always love you |
|
| ALINE IKUZWE |
August 26th, 2009 11:38 pm ET Anderson please I would like to see again Teddy Kennedy in his on word . Thanks.Would you please tell me where in Houston I can take roses to remember Teddy Kennedy . Thank We love you Teddy |
|
| ALINE IKUZWE |
August 26th, 2009 11:55 pm ET I m sure Sen Kennedy will see health care he support getting to all in haven even if us here we use Republicans to stop it for our interest I wish we did listen to SEN Kennedy RIP we all love you |
|
|
Comments have been closed for this article |
||
A behind the scenes look at “Anderson Cooper 360°” and the stories it covers, written by Anderson Cooper, the AC360° staff and a network of contributors. Insight you can’t find anywhere else.
We search the news each day to show you what’s on our radar and what we’re planning for the show each night.
For more details, read our tips on how to win 360° approval for comments.
Send your instant feedback to Anderson Cooper 360°.
- Live Blog from the Anchor Desk 02/09/10
- Evening Buzz: Digging Out.... Again
- Returning to Haiti. Tipping the scales of faith.
- Toyota Recalls: What you need to know
- Severe Weather Update
- Treating addicts: What we may (or may not) learn from the Conrad Murray case
- The view from above
- Interactive Haiti Map: Aid, supplies and stories
- Video: Doctors: Haitian may have survived 4 weeks in rubble
- One year in, Obama must define himself
- February 2010
- January 2010
- December 2009
- November 2009
- October 2009
- September 2009
- August 2009
- July 2009
- June 2009
- May 2009
- April 2009
- March 2009
- February 2009
- January 2009
- December 2008
- November 2008
- October 2008
- September 2008
- August 2008
- July 2008
- June 2008
- May 2008
- April 2008
- March 2008
- February 2008
- January 2008
- December 2005

