Andrew Sullivan
The Atlantic
There are two things to say about him. He was a musical genius; and he was an abused child. By abuse, I do not mean sexual abuse; I mean he was used brutally and callously for money, and clearly imprisoned by a tyrannical father. He had no real childhood and spent much of his later life struggling to get one. He was spiritually and psychologically raped at a very early age – and never recovered. Watching him change his race, his age, and almost his gender, you saw a tortured soul seeking what the rest of us take for granted: a normal life.
But he had no compass to find one; no real friends to support and advise him; and money and fame imprisoned him in the delusions of narcissism and self-indulgence. Of course, he bears responsibility for his bizarre life. But the damage done to him by his own family and then by all those motivated more by money and power than by faith and love was irreparable in the end. He died a while ago. He remained for so long a walking human shell.
I loved his music. His young voice was almost a miracle, his poise in retrospect eery, his joy, tempered by pain, often unbearably uplifting. He made the greatest music video of all time; and he made some of the greatest records of all time. He was everything our culture worships; and yet he was obviously desperately unhappy, tortured, afraid and alone.
I grieve for him; but I also grieve for the culture that created and destroyed him. That culture is ours' and it is a lethal and brutal one: with fame and celebrity as its core values, with money as its sole motive, it chewed this child up and spat him out.
I hope he has the peace now he never had in his life. And I pray that such genius will not be so abused again.
| Sandra |
June 25th, 2009 9:03 pm ET I will miss him. I was lucky enough to see him and his brothers in concert when I was a teenager in the 80's. RIP Michael Jackson. |
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| Edward |
June 25th, 2009 9:07 pm ET This is a shocker! It's like the day when they announced Elvis Presley's death. His music will live forever! We pray for him and his family! |
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| Dallas Stevens |
June 25th, 2009 9:09 pm ET AC, I respect you, like you & feel you're the best going, but come on, I see 5 large blocks given to Michael, but nothing for a great actress, Ms. Fawcett. While his was tragic hers was far more so, lasting 3 years.He went quickly, thank God for him & his family, but she sufferred so much over thes years & she deserves to share the spotlight. |
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| Cindy |
June 25th, 2009 9:10 pm ET Great article Andrew. It is so true that Michael was just used and abused by his family and others and was never really cared for in the right way. It was sad the way he had to grow up. Yet we all have a choice at how we choose to live when we get to be adults. He had a lot of ups and downs but nothing can ever take away the fact that he was a great artist who put out some awesome music that will never be forgotten. There will never be another entertainer like him. He will be missed! My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Cindy..Ga. |
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| Jimmy sasser |
June 25th, 2009 9:10 pm ET It's such a devistating loss of Michael Jackson! but who is is legal next of kin? Is it going to be another Anna Nichole smith? |
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| todd conaway |
June 25th, 2009 9:12 pm ET Please remember Neda and the fight for freedom in Iran...those kids are fighting for the very essence in which we found love for Michael Jackson. FREEDOM! |
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| Annie Kate |
June 25th, 2009 9:26 pm ET A very touching retrospection Andrew. I appreciate your viewpoint and the excellence of your writing. I never thought of Jackson in this way but now that you have pointed it out I can see it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. |
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| Vanessa |
June 25th, 2009 9:31 pm ET Anderson – here's a great poll for you – find out how many people are being "unfriended" or "unfollowed" based on their posts about the two famous deaths today. I've already seen some pretty ingnorant posts, but personally won't be defriending or unfollowing anyone until I see how all the replies and responses play out... Vanessa in Washington, DC |
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| Jimmy sasser |
June 25th, 2009 9:32 pm ET It's a tragic loss of Michael Jackson, but who is the legal next of kin? Hope it's not another Anna Nichole Smith! |
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| Rosann Romano |
June 25th, 2009 9:46 pm ET Michael Jackson was a human being before he was a Pop Icon. He was a son, a father, and a friend. He will be missed by everyone throught the world. Even during his tough time, he had a smile on his face. His true fans will forever love him and his music. People have looked up to him for years. R.I.P Michael Jackson!!! |
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| Brenda Moran |
June 25th, 2009 9:57 pm ET Well said. Well said. |
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| InsaneLoon |
June 25th, 2009 9:59 pm ET A beautiful piece. Poignant and cautionary at the same time. Thank you. |
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| Carol |
June 25th, 2009 10:02 pm ET I am deeply saddened by Michael Jackson's death. My love of his music was passed down to all 3 of my daughters. His music will live forever. RIP Michael. You are missed terribly. |
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| Lori |
June 25th, 2009 10:03 pm ET He was an abused person during most of his life. He even abused himself as an adult with all of the modifications to his appearance. When I see the pictures of him as a child, I feel like crying. He was so talented and beautiful. It is such a shame that he could not honor himself that way. I truly hope that he has found peace. |
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| Liza Cuevas |
June 25th, 2009 10:17 pm ET "I grieve for him; but I also grieve for the culture that created and destroyed him. That culture is ours’ and it is a lethal and brutal one: with fame and celebrity as its core values, with money as its sole motive, it chewed this child up and spat him out." well said. |
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| Sam |
June 25th, 2009 10:24 pm ET Well said, Andrew. Michael was the soundtrack to my childhood, and the part of me that will never grow up mourns him. Very sad. |
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| Gretel |
June 25th, 2009 10:31 pm ET Andrew, I have been one of your fans for a long time and have just been freshly reminded why. You put into words so many of the thoughts in my mind. Thank you. |
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| Susan |
June 25th, 2009 10:33 pm ET Bravo! Thank you for saying it when so many of us think it. God speed Michael. I hope now you have the peace and love you so craved here on this sometimes cruel earth. |
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| mazen abdo |
June 25th, 2009 10:39 pm ET ohh michael mjarabia miss you so much. slam alecom |
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| Shery |
June 25th, 2009 10:47 pm ET Insightful and beautifully written piece, Mr. Sullivan. Thank you for writing this. |
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| Annell |
June 25th, 2009 10:52 pm ET I remember my husband staying outside overnight with my daughter and her friends to get tickets for Michael's concert,in the early 80's at the VET in Philly. She was totally devastedatthenews. She had Michael's Billy Jeanplayingin the delivery room when her daughter was born. A talent that is unsurpassed. A true genesis. He is now at peace. Sing in the heavenly choir Michael. Rest in peace. |
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| Dario Villarreal |
June 25th, 2009 10:55 pm ET I thank you for this excellent article you wrote on Michael Jackson, you are right he is a Musical genius in all the senses. No one will ever come close to what he is. My prayers go out to the Jackson Family and fans. His music will live on. I didn't believe it at first but, when I turned on the Television there were no more doubts. The first word that came out said he had died a tear came out my eye, because I looked up to him as a musician and a person. |
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| Thomas Ahart |
June 25th, 2009 11:00 pm ET One of the first albums I bought as a present for my newly teenage daughter was Thriller. Tonight she called in tears (age now 39)). I guess a lot of us grew up listening to Michael. I even learned to "Moonwalk" at the grand age of 45. Michael was fun and good to listen to by all ages. |
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| Jan |
June 25th, 2009 11:01 pm ET I understand that Michael J was considered an icon, but so was Farrah Fawcet. I do not understand why his death, as tragic as it was, is overshadowing hers, His life was filled with so much controversy, where Farrah was such an elegant and caring person, involved in so much. She took stands for what she believed in. I think it is a shame we are over-looking what she was. |
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| Laurin Cowling |
June 25th, 2009 11:01 pm ET Beautifully written words, Andrew. And so true. This news comes as a shock, and also as no surprise. I have long believed that Michael's genius masked a mentally stunted man-child that obsessed over young boys in a predatory way. It was a classic case of an abused child growing into an abusive adult. Yes, his music was amazing and his talent limitless. For that he will be forever remembered and missed. He was a Pop Icon and a humanitarian... but for all that adulation, he was alone. His story is a tragedy, really. And I imagine that in the coming days and weeks we may learn details that will illustrate just how sad Michael Jackson's situation really was. We look at celebrity and fame and wealth with wide eyes, but it extolls a price. When all is said and done, Michael Jackson was and always will be a "Thriller" to millions worldwide. |
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| Thomas Ahart |
June 25th, 2009 11:01 pm ET Andrew, another thoughtful remembrance. Thanks. |
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| Sage Pierson |
June 25th, 2009 11:16 pm ET I'm 15 years old and i didn't know much about Micheal, but i know that he was a courageous man and he only mean't well. |
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| mohammad al-amin |
June 25th, 2009 11:17 pm ET Mr. Anderson: We have read earlier that Mr. Jackson was converted to muslim . Was it true? |
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| artie |
June 25th, 2009 11:19 pm ET we will miss you allways |
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| Rachel |
June 25th, 2009 11:19 pm ET It's sad! So sad! He spent his entire life trying to recoup the life he'd lost as a child. Only to be gone from us all at only 50 years old. Tortured sums it up so well. I've been saying that about Michael for years. His music will always put in the same reigns with the greats. I wish him God's love. |
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| Jeffrey K. |
June 25th, 2009 11:22 pm ET Brilliant, Andrew. Your writing, as always, is excellent and poignant. |
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| Kay Airola |
June 25th, 2009 11:26 pm ET Andrew – So well written! Yes, he was a genius and was abused. i had no idea of any prescription abuse until this evening, but will wait until the autopsy report before making conclusions myself. |
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| Shanny |
June 25th, 2009 11:34 pm ET Very TRUE and correct. Think of other's wha are also victims, this is a wake up call to the psychological problems he experienced and what the unfortunate outcome was for him, sad & lost soul. He has finally found peace. |
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| John-Wesley |
June 25th, 2009 11:36 pm ET The only person that is in the class of Michael Jackson was Elvis. They lived similar lives. They died similar deaths. Alone and relying on chemicals to get through the day. A self loathing that showed itself in constant physical morphing. Michael through surgery, Elvis via overeating. |
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| Bailey |
June 25th, 2009 11:41 pm ET Thank you for providing the best piece of writing thus far on Michael Jackson. Well said, very true, and needed. Too many people are overlooking the harsh realities that Jackson faced. |
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| Francis Onabis |
June 25th, 2009 11:44 pm ET Michael rest is peace....the music world will never be the same without you. |
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| Francis Onabis |
June 25th, 2009 11:46 pm ET Jacko Rest in peace...music world will never be the same with you |
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| Calandra |
June 25th, 2009 11:47 pm ET It is so true that we tend to take people for granted and nevertheless great people. We did not protect and take care of MJ like we should have but now he will be embraced with the love of God that we so neglected him from having here on earth. I am so sad and shedding tears alone. Michael died from a broken-heart and loneliness. We broke his heart. I love you Michael Jackson R.I.P |
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| Edward |
June 25th, 2009 11:47 pm ET Andrew, |
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| Linda |
June 25th, 2009 11:48 pm ET Thank you Andrew for shouting out loud the tragedies of Michael Jackson. I am 56 yo and remember well the little boy with the big smile and the even bigger Afro. As the years passed we all watched the horrors of his life unfold silently before us. |
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| Dolores |
June 25th, 2009 11:48 pm ET I loved and liked Michael Jackson so very much. He was so talented |
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| Erica |
June 25th, 2009 11:55 pm ET I very sad that micheal as passed away.. i hope that he will find peace now he was a great friend father and brother and i am very sorry that is family is going through all of this... micheal rest in peace my friend |
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| Shellon |
June 25th, 2009 11:55 pm ET HI AM WRITING FROM ANTIGUA HI AM VERY SORRY FOR WHAT HAD HAPPEN TO MICHAEL,PEOPLE NEED TO UNDER STAND MICHAEL DID NOT HAD A CHILD HOOD SO HE HE HAD WANTED TO BE A CHILD HIM SELF,WHEN UR CHILD HOOD IS TAKEN FROM U YOU HAVE NO CHOICE TO WANT TO BE A KID YOUR SELF. MICHAEL WAS A GOOD MAN AND WILL STILL BE A GOOD MAN. IT IS SAD TO SEE KIDS PLAYING AND U DID NOT GET THE CHANCE TO PLAY LIKE A CHILD THAT SI HOW MICHAEL FEEL,ALL WE DO SI RUSH TO JUDGE PEOPLE FOR WHAT THE DO NO KNOW. WHAT WE NEED TO DO IS TO HONOR PEOPLE WHEN THE ARE A LIFE NO WHEN THE ARE DEAD AND GONE. |
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| Jur802 |
June 25th, 2009 11:57 pm ET Very true... but isn't this the way the entertainment industry functions? Many selfish, money and power hungry people thrive on geniuses like MJ. The recent example is Britney Spears who generates multi- million dollars revenue thanks to tabloid magazines and paparazzi. It's the price of fame that almost all talented artist have to pay. |
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| christine |
June 25th, 2009 11:58 pm ET I can't believe your really gone. It just feels like a horrible nightmere that i can't wake up from. You will be forever in my heart in this world and the after life. I will see you one day in heaven. My heart and prayers are with your beautiful children and the rest of your family. RIP Michael Jackson Aug 29 1958-June 25 2009 |
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| Aleksandar Bracinac |
June 25th, 2009 11:59 pm ET I really believe that he was good person with everything you've said Andrew. Like millions, I am big fan of his music which was light years in the front of the music industry at his time! He will find his peace between the stars on the sky. In the name of thousands fans from Serbia, Rest in peace Michael! |
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| Sherman |
June 26th, 2009 12:03 am ET Micheal will be missed so much i was waiting for the come back cause i know he had it in him. Mike expressed himself through his music like know other, you could liturally feel his music . His music made you want to dance or relaxe or make love.Mike was truly the King of pop worldwide R.I.P. we love you hope you made it to the right place. |
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| Ann Marie |
June 26th, 2009 12:11 am ET Let us not forget: A CHILD MOLESTER!!!! |
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| Dianne Garrett |
June 26th, 2009 12:26 am ET Andrew Sullivan with The Atlantic said everthing I would like to say and said it all beautifully about Michael. |
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| Pete Walls |
June 26th, 2009 12:34 am ET Michael Jackson was the best dancer ever and a wonderful performer. |
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| Edwin Castro |
June 26th, 2009 12:48 am ET There are no words to express the great lost. We as a nation have lost one of the greatest entertainers of all time. I grew-up listening to Micheal Jackson. Although, I am 5 years older I was impresssed with this music and dancing. I love you very much. There will never be another like Micheal. My heart goes out to his family. May you rest in peace the King of Pop. |
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| Barbara Liebowitz |
June 26th, 2009 12:54 am ET Rest in Peace |
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| amir ghayas- india |
June 26th, 2009 1:01 am ET love you bro r.i.p |
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| Ololade Majolagbe |
June 26th, 2009 1:05 am ET Sleep well michael. Allah love you more. Sleep well, king. you are the world and you are the child of the world |
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| Madilyn |
June 26th, 2009 1:06 am ET I've appreciated your views, voice & insight for a long time Andrew. Thank you |
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| Akia Allen |
June 26th, 2009 1:18 am ET Is upset at Jeffrey Toobin and his judgemental attitude towards Michael Jackson..This man just passed, give him the proper respect that's due. He's history and the King of Pop. Why bring up how unhealthy he looked and the molestation? What is this, this man always opened the doors to others, such as the song We Are the World. This started all of the humanitarian efforts for thise less fortunate, and all they can do is sit up and talk about the negatives? So uncool, and Mr. Toobin, I wonder what negative things America doesn't publically know about you??? |
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| Akira Clark |
June 26th, 2009 1:21 am ET AC THANK YOU...That is all |
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| Rick |
June 26th, 2009 2:07 am ET Maybe now he can be in peace... |
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| george gamberucci |
June 26th, 2009 2:28 am ET all my respect to michael jackson "the king of pop", but he looked rather frail later, he should have kept his debts and lived longer |
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| DLFarthing |
June 26th, 2009 2:48 am ET Goodbye Michael jackson. When I was 17, I took my girlfriend to see the Jackson Five perform at Madison Square Garden in NYC. it was a concert for the ages, because it is remembered very well. I still have the ticket stubs, too! We enjoy the sounds that Michael made over and over again. We will listen to them over and over again. Bob Hope would say, "Thanks for the memories!!"– "Can't stop this thriller!!!" Oh Yeah! That girlfriend then, is now my wife! |
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| Lisa |
June 26th, 2009 2:55 am ET i was looking forward to the concert in London Michael was preparing. |
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| abdirahman |
June 26th, 2009 3:20 am ET Iam big fane of micheal I grew up back in africa watching him iam gona. Miss him very much he was my hero. My heart goes out to him. |
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| Oti Brown, |
June 26th, 2009 3:24 am ET (Michael Jackson, the music Messiah) I like to give thanks to God almighty for blessing the whole World Michael Jackson is not just a music Legend, but a music Messiah to the whole World. Thanks Michael Jackson. R.I.P. |
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| Simone |
June 26th, 2009 3:27 am ET I am in the medical field. I am writing because I just have to say to someone, anyone, that any doctor will tell you that there is a more than even chance that the "family physician" needs to be taken into custody now. His presence is more than suspicious. Otherwise he will most likely flee. There is a better than even chance that he overdosed Michael with an intravenous drug. If so, it was negligent homicide. No wonder the Homicide Department is handling that case. Dr. Feelgood did it his way, instead of hustling Michael Jackson to a cardiologist on Wed. night. Very very sad. Thank you for giving me this forum. Perhaps now I can return to my practice tomorrow and no feel so badly about this profession. |
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| April |
June 26th, 2009 3:29 am ET I must agree with Todd: the lives being lost in Iran's struggle for freedom deserve time. I think we are over-saturated with celebrities and celebrity coverage. Michael did contribute a lot to music and was a wonderful entertainer. But there is much grief and misery in Darful and elsewhere. |
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| Kirsten |
June 26th, 2009 3:42 am ET Thank you for talking about the elephant in the room. Well written as usual insightful and soulful. You are always getting it right. Keep on.... |
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| Edward |
June 26th, 2009 3:51 am ET I remember my first album i received for christmas "thriller" i was 9 years old.I played it until it wore out.Michael your pain is over iam sure in my heart that you have found everlasting peace in heaven. |
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| natasha |
June 26th, 2009 3:53 am ET this is no loss .. anyone that harms a child deserves to be gone... good by perv... once he harmed children.... i lost all respect for him... good bye perv |
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| mark |
June 26th, 2009 4:34 am ET Let us not forget that people die by the dozens in Iran, Iraq, Gaza, Afghanistan, Somalia... and unfortunately don't get the same coverage |
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| Angelo |
June 26th, 2009 5:13 am ET A truly remarkable pop Legend, who had a tremendous impact on my life as a child. You will always be remembered forever as the world's greatest Michael. Michael Jackson was and always will be the greatest pop artist. The media tarnished his image, and I am ashamed that they placed so much negativity on him. What disappoints me and hurts me the most, are the child allegations, that dragged Michael's name in the dirt. The King of Pop prevails as #1 in my heart always and will forever be remembered and cherished. God Bless you Michael. |
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| Josh darius |
June 26th, 2009 6:27 am ET Yeah if he was poor and had sex with children you would be damning him, but because he sang a few songs you are mourning him...what hipocrates...jerry lee lewis did far far worse and the world scorned him and yet you ignoranimi praise this piece of slime........he is in hell and all of you should join hm I hope |
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| Danielle |
June 26th, 2009 9:14 am ET As I watched the news last night unfold, I was tremendously saddened. To know that we have lost such an amazing talented human being, at such a young age breaks my heart. How many people will we have to lose in such a tragic manner before something is done? I believe, and only time will truly tell, that he suffered from addiction and the enablers around him should all be held accountable. It is disgusting that he had no one by his side who truly cared about his life. Elvis, Monroe, Anna Nicole and so many many others who have died prematurely at the hands of doctors and pharmacists and sycophants. Something must change. |
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| anna |
June 26th, 2009 9:47 am ET there is always a price to pay. it is almost always related to drugs, alcohol, etc...when will we ever learn? how many more great artists do we have to lose? mj's death is another reminder but there will still be others who will go the same way......so tragic.....gone too soon |
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| Sufyan |
June 26th, 2009 10:02 am ET I will be have new music for him goodbye king |
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| katrinamc |
June 26th, 2009 10:04 am ET Thank you so much Andrew for putting into words what has been heavily on my heart since we first heard this. I love that you always take an objective point of view in your writings. Thankfully, Michael Joseph Jackson is now at peace. |
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