Reporter's Note: I write a letter to President Obama every day. Sometimes I give advice (which is dubious at best,) sometimes I tell stories (which are uninteresting at worst,) and always I invite him to call and chat it all over ( which is unlikely.)
Tom Foreman | Bio
AC360° Correspondent
Dear Mr. President,
Happy Monday! I hope your new week is off to a good start, and even if it is not, I certainly hope you are remaining good natured about it. Sometimes when things go bad I fly off the handle, the high point of which was the brisk sailing of a laptop computer across my office in Denver years ago. Oddly enough, it emerged unscathed. Go figure. But most of the time, I purse my lips, shake my head, and quietly laugh about the absurdities of life.
I was watching the ruckus last week between Sarah Palin and David Letterman and thinking what I have thought far too often in recent years: We are really losing our sense of humor in this country. And that’s a shame. Whether a comic makes a good joke, a bad joke, or an in-between joke, I’m not sure we should be getting so worked up about it. After all, didn’t a lot of us consider those riots over the Prophet Mohammed cartoons a bit over the top?
Maybe we’ve grown overly sensitive because we’ve turned into such an all-or-nothing culture. You either win the Superbowl, or you are nobody. You either become Miss USA, or you lose even your Miss California sash. You take the Oval Office, or you wind up as Secretary of State. I suppose that makes everyone afraid of looking weak or foolish even for a moment, so they feel compelled to strike back immediately and take down Carrot Top, Conan, and anyone in between. But it’s like watching Mike Tyson beat up a clown at the circus: Even if it were justified, it would just look ridiculous.
By and large, I think politicians look silly when they start debating comedians. (OK…admittedly, I’m not sure where Ross Perot fits into that equation.) You don’t like a crack that was made? Say you don’t like it. Ignore it. Whatever. But don’t get into some big discussion like it’s the Iranian nuclear program. I know it is a little tougher when you feel like a family member was insulted, but even then, I’m not sure anyone’s interest is well served by reacting in such a way as to get the video clip replayed a hundred times more.
We need a few laughs right now. I know different people find different things funny. I know plenty of people, for example, don’t find me funny at all. Fair enough. I probably wouldn’t enjoy sharing a pizza with them either. But I’m not going to book a ballroom at the Hilton and challenge them to a punch up.
Comics are here to make us laugh. Politicians, not so much. But when they get their feathers all ruffled over some late night crack. Well, that can be pretty funny and not in the way they want.
Here’s a Washington joke:
Knock knock.
Who is there?
Depends on what you mean by ‘who.’ As long as it is a gender-neutral, unbiased, bipartisan, non-religious, low-fat, security cleared, politically correct question…uh…it’s me.
Call if you can. I’m around.
Regards,
Tom
Find more of the Foreman Letters, here.
| Fed Up |
June 15th, 2009 8:42 am ET Defending Letterman. If anything even remotely similar was said about ANY Democrat there would have been outrage. Oh, but the Media would NEVER say or air anything against the Great Obama, even facts they should have reported prior to electing him. Media bias at its best! |
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| Presley |
June 15th, 2009 10:02 am ET Hello Tom Foreman, I don't believe you are defending any one up there in this letter despite what some without humor might think. XXO ♥ |
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| Geez |
June 15th, 2009 10:04 am ET People need to develop thicker skins. Plain and simple, people like Palin look for any opportunity to get their name in the news. I would love to see them accomplish it through positive actions towards improving the disasterous state of the nation. If they can't handle the pressure of political humor, then I question their ability to manage the stress/pressure of holding political office. |
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| Sandra Robertson, GA |
June 15th, 2009 10:10 am ET Good morning Tom and thank you. I have learned not to sweat the "big stuff," for it will emotionally weaken us to the point where we cannot handle the "big stuff." In times of extreme sadness or stress, a smile is greatly appreciated. We need to lighten up a little. Have a great week. |
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| Jack |
June 15th, 2009 10:14 am ET I'd take Your advice anyday, Tom. I might want to read it and then "sit" on it for 3 Days. But 3 Days is a LONG Time with the way the World wirls around these Days. I must say there is a lot of sour grapes that some are eating lately. A lot of angry people out there. I bit My tounge for 8 Years with My siblings and now in My own quiet way listen to Their complaints. Keep writing Your letters. At least the one I read this Morning made Me think to "Take a Big Breath and Get Over IT"! |
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| Jenny |
June 15th, 2009 10:17 am ET that's true, no one ever really make fun of the Obama's. when someone does, we start to question, is t right? should we laugh? maybe that's racist... when the right comedians starts to make the right comments, that will not seem like an insult.. it will be funny. When that guy (not sure what his name is) said, Michell obama's ultimate enemy is sleeve, it was funny. It depend on who is saying it and how they"re saying. ps.. i think you're hilarious... |
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| Tina |
June 15th, 2009 11:23 am ET Tom, you are right in the fact that families are losing the fun out of life. I don't think we should always walk on eggshells. We should not take every word spoken seriously. Let it go. |
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| Tina |
June 15th, 2009 11:25 am ET Yeah, knock , knock. I want a job in the federal government. Or Cnn would be nice. |
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| Dulcie - Denver |
June 15th, 2009 8:33 pm ET Great letter, Tom! I completely agree. Everyone takes everything so seriously anymore. Yes, there are times for serious, but honestly, if we can't laugh at ourselves, well, I think we end up looking like buffoons anyway. It's one of the reasons I like AC360. We usually get a light moment at the end of the program, no matter how serious the news. A good way to end the night. |
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