Comments on: Jesse Jackson’s truth

By: Trasa, Tx

Trasa, Tx — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 06:43:45 +0000

I don't see anything wrong with Obama's comments and although it's true across all ethnics groups, but so prominent in the black community. I would like to tell a brief story of my mom, who was discriminated against that kept her from higher pay and even getting jobs, and all she was trying to do was support her 3 kids. My father up and decided he wasn't going to contribute and stopped working all together. My mom despite the adversities still made it, without help from the government and without help from her family. So, if she can do it and I understand it's an individual thing, then black men should get up and support their children. If you don't want kids, either get fixed, use protection or stop altogether. Some black men will use excuses it's society not giving them the advantage and discrimination and I would say to them, my mom went through the same thing and she found the strength to keep going and always told us that nobody owes you anything, you have to work for it.

By: Leroy

Leroy — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 03:05:41 +0000

For the life of me, I can't understand why Jesse would find fault with Obama's stance on fathers being responsible for their offspring. Jesse's dissatisfaction must be about something else. Shame on you, Jesse!

By: Dan Phillips

Dan Phillips — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 02:47:33 +0000

In my humble opinion it's about 12 years past the time where JJ should have retired to an island somewhere without access to any forms of communication.His once illustrious career in the trenches of the civil rights movement had reached the point of diminishing returns and if he'd kept his pants on his financial house would have been in a state that he could have bowed out on top. Now he's debased himself becoming nothing more than a race bater attempting to create an issue of any kind to stay in the pubilc eye. He should read more of that black leather bound book that he prominently waves around when it suits his cause de jour and attempt to humble himself before God. At least then he'd have a chance to take pride in his son who, by my record, has already accomplished more positive change than JJ ever did..

By: Keith lafayette la,

Keith lafayette la, — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 00:34:03 +0000

Jesse has old school mentality tha all white,s are out to minipulate, beat ,an run over the blacks.He sure don,t represent me an many others feel the same as i do.I,m a young black male an OBAMA said it correct everyone needs to step up an take care of the responsability that each of us created mainly of kids, An quit leaning on the Goverment to bail us out because that welfare an gov, assistance is a road that leads to nowhere,s a dead end street,,,,,,,,,,,Jesse Needs to ride into the sunset an go care for his ligetmate kid he need to step up instead of worrying about who,s talking dowm,,,,,,,,,,,

By: Ratna, New York, NY

Ratna, New York, NY — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 00:10:50 +0000

Dear Faye Wattleton,

I know that Obama has grown up in a father-less household which is typical for a Black family. But I also think that he should avoid reflecting his resentment about his father's abondonment to other black men in his political surroundings and the common African American folks. He needs to rethink his disposition, otherwise he will piss off more Black leaders.

I don't blame Jesse Jackson for being angry; He should not have had that off-microphone conversation, but for an observer like me it is an eye-opener.

This "Black" phenomenon can be explained as a historical development by the way African American men have been alienated from the Christian patriarchal social structure which is a frame for the American social-economic structure today. African Americans have not completely adapted to this social structure and racial profiling and discrimination makes it very hard to do so.

So, I need some more sensitivity and understanding from Obama on this issue.

By: Mari, Salt Lake City

Mari, Salt Lake City — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 00:02:39 +0000

I agree with Cindy, at the top of the page. All that Sen. Obama has said is true. Now if African-American men don't want to hear it nor agree they are free to disagree.

Jackson, is SO out of line. Please, Jesse, retire.

By: Jim-

Jim- — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 23:30:25 +0000

Obama was not talking Down to anyone But doing what the Preachers from the pulpits have FAILED to do which is give men of ALL races a good swift kick in the rear end & make them realize THEY need to be responcible for the children they bring into this world. 100 years ago if you got a woman pregnant guess what
you married her & you took care of Her & the Children you BOTH created.

By: Caycee

Caycee — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 23:28:25 +0000

Jackson's perception of the tone and slant of Obama's message isn't what I believe is the biggest issue here. Jackson's legacy as a civil rights leader and a reverend is being dimished by his own jealous, irresponsible self-inflicted remarks. Who wants to give credence and respect to a man whose message is that he'd like to inflict bodily harm to another person whose views differ from his own? We've had decades of that kind of leadership and activities. Now, all we've go to show for it is a collapsing economy, an horrific war, and a deeply divided country sniping at each other instead of trying to find workable compromise and solutions. Trying to hurt another to prove a point does not work. But apparently, the beings who do have the power to work things out for US are still playing the same old con on US and I for one am not having it.

By: Jane, USA

Jane, USA — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 23:23:56 +0000

It's horrifying that there are people here who think that men don't have to be responsible for protecting themselves and that it's women who are the problem. If a man doesn't want to have to pay child support, he should wear a condom, they're cheaper and far easier to get than birth control pills. All this whining that it's evil, conniving women who are the problem only serves to infantalize men and make it seem like men are, in fact, animals with no will of their own when it comes to sex. It's appalling and, frankly, embarrassing.

By: Dasha, USA

Dasha, USA — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 23:19:46 +0000

I agree that this is a serious issue in the Black Community, however, no one ever stands up and tells White men they have to be responsible too. When I'm reading articles about "Men's Rights Activists" and men who are so angry that they can't bareback a woman without the fear of getting her pregnant that they are getting vasectomies and I see that few, if there are any, are men of color, I see a serious problem with all men.

And Mike, slavery is not an excuse, Blacks have been in the United States for 600 years and have only had anything approaching equality for 50 of them.

By: sj

sj — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 20:23:39 +0000

The truth about all of this is that times are changing. I respect the Civil Rights era and pay homage to it, but that time has come and gone. The problems identified during this time period as being a Black issue, have tranformed themselves to a national issue. This is one of the "benefits" of progress, all have the right to succeed or fail. Fatherless homes, crime, lack of education, miseducation, poverty – these issues spread across race and ethncity. Jesse Jackson, Sr. and others fail to understand or admit this. America is going through a new era of classism, where one's socioeconomic status is what determines who you are, what you are, and what obstacles stand in your way, not perceived race and ethnicity. There are several non-Blacks who can relate more to the "Black experience" than I ever will solely because of economics. When the "politicos" and the public are willing to admit this shift in prejudices, American policies will begin to change, and so to will lives.

By: Betty Ann, Nacogdoches,TX

Betty Ann, Nacogdoches,TX — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 20:02:22 +0000

Rve. Jackson is so jealous of Obama he can't stand it. that is painfully clear~

By: Kristen- Philadelphia, PA

Kristen- Philadelphia, PA — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 19:47:56 +0000

Karen I would have to agree. It takes two to tango and women should be more responsible to whom they open themselves up to. I feel like having a baby is becoming the latest trend. Well what happens to all these children when the trend is no more?

By: Kevin Leo (Jonesboro, GA)

Kevin Leo (Jonesboro, GA) — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 19:42:06 +0000

At the age of 10, my parents separated and later divorced, leaving myself and siblings under the heading of single parent household. While my father was around, I never developed a relationship with him after that point and at the age of 41, I still do not have one. Having said this, I fully agree with Sen Obama and commend him, Bill Cosby, and others for demanding our African-American fathers to step up and take personal repsonsibility.

I fully respect Faye for all that she has done over the years, datring back to her time at Planned Parenthood, but she is wrong on this issue. SenObama has long spoken about society's faults and problems in this regard. You can go back to his historical speech on race to see just recent comments in this regard. However, his Father's Day speech was about what we, as African-American males needed to be doing. You must cater the message to the audience and that day he needed to address the men for what they have and have not been doing. This was by no means talking down to anyone but speaking to men as a man, eye to eye and from experience.

By: Larry

Larry — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 19:25:07 +0000

What did Sen. Obama say that had not already been said by Dr. Bill Cosby?

That right arm move by Jesse to simulate the cutting off of Sen. Obama's testicles should have led to his arrest; you can't just go around threatening bodily harm to the next potential POTUS and expect to get away with it.

By: Karen

Karen — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 19:05:35 +0000

We will start achieving equality when we start holding Black women as responsible for unwanted pregnancies as Black men. Instead of assuming that Black men who don't support their families are bad, why don't we look at the reasons why Black women chase Black men away? Yes, men need to take more responsibility for their sperm and practice safe sex. But stop pretending that men aren't weak-willed creatures that can be coerced into having unprotected sex by conniving big-butt girls. Poor Black women used to have babies to get a welfare check. We dismantled welfare and replaced it with child support. We did very little to change the attitudes of these women who associate a baby with income, regardless of whether that income comes from a man or the State. Let’s save our sons and teach girls to keep their legs (and mouths!) closed. (Married mother of very young boys shocked by what young girls will do these days!)

Orange County, California

By: Harrison Neal, South Carolina

Harrison Neal, South Carolina — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 18:35:41 +0000

Kim in New York, thank you for that. People seem to think that discrimination is just for blacks, but it is for all races. Like you say there's just as much people in other races who receive government help, but there not broadcast as much as blacks.

By: Harrison Neal, South Carolina

Harrison Neal, South Carolina — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 18:31:02 +0000

I feel if a men took his Fathers Day speech as a low blow it's because they're not real fathers. His speech wasn't gared towards all black fathers just the ones who are not doing there jobs as black fathers. If you're doing your job as a father just continue, but if you're not man up and take care of you rsponsibility.

By: Cynthia

Cynthia — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 17:58:44 +0000

Senator Obama was correct in his speech and it applies to all fathers who are not being fathers. I think it is time to move on to something else.

By: Fay, CA

Fay, CA — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 17:34:50 +0000

African-American fathers face subtle and not so subtle workplace discrimination because of their race, leading to a substantial income inequity. Their families experience an alarming disparity in access to equitable healthcare leading to higher incidence of chronic disease and shorter life spans. African-American families live in every day more disintegrated neighborhoods, where young black men are victims of racial profiling and everyone is subject to shocking incarceration disparities.

In spite of the progress that African Americans have made over the years, these particular problems persist and they clearly illustrate why racism is still such a huge issue in the lives of many African Americans today.