Comments on: Bloggers react to women vets story

By: D

Mon, 24 Mar 2008 18:26:53 +0000

As a women in the military for eleven years, I believe that we have been neglected and underestimated. Women today are on the front lines serving their country and it is not talked about. People don't want to know that mothers and daughters are fighting in combat. As a women in the military you have to be strong in order to be successful. We have to endure sexism daily sexual harrassment, yet be still keep up with our male conterparts. I cannot begin to tell you the sacrifices we women make not only in combat but in the military in general only to return with little regard. Women in the military do it because they want to serve their country like every man does, it is our choice to serve just like the women who fought so hard to ensure our right to vote, we women to day are paving the way in the military.

By: Keri

Keri — Sun, 23 Mar 2008 23:10:18 +0000

Thank you to everyone for the kind words. I told my story because I am a strong women and feel that it's important for others Vets out there to get help and let the American people know that it's ok to speak out on such topics. I joined the Military back in 1991, because I was raised in a family where women were taught that we can do and be anything we want. As far as my superior sexually harrassing me, he stepped out of line. He is a married man with children himself and just because we were overseas does not constitute his actions. As far as the military denying my claim, I expected that, and I have to live with that. It's like being locked up in prison for a crime you didn't commit and you spend a lot of time trying to prove your self. I was told by the State of Wisconsin "what happens in Kuwait, stays in Kuwait" Isn't that what they say about Vegas, I don't recall my duty overseas was anything like Vegas.

By: CJ

CJ — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 19:35:30 +0000

It is surprising how much women have to put up with.

By: Ram

Ram — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 17:53:13 +0000

A womens role as a wife & mother of children in a family is to be a piller of strength in supporting the family activities. This is more than a full time job. In addition to this she could work close to home & bring in an additional income. A man's job is to go out, work, bring in the finances to support the family. This division of labor is essential to raise a good family. I really cannot understand why in this world women want to get a combat duty & men trying to keep a control on everything? Be smart, make life easy for yourself, live & enjoy life.

By: Donna, South Boston, MA

Donna, South Boston, MA — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 13:36:04 +0000

Perhaps it shouldn't be surprising, but it certainly is frightening to read the comments–especially from women–that women should expect to be sexually harassed and assaulted if they choose to enter the military. How can these people sanction rape and harassment? It is not okay for male soldiers to throw their morals and the law out the window because they are at war. The solution is not to ban women from the military, but to better educate our young men. A man who will rape a woman is not defending his country or anyone.

By: Ratna, New York, NY

Ratna, New York, NY — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 13:21:08 +0000

It is so rare that we hear about women telling their millitary experience and their struggles with PTSD. Has anyone thought off creating an organization where these women can receive eachother and share their experiences? Has Keri thought of that?

By: karen nevarez, albuquerque, nm

karen nevarez, albuquerque, nm — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 07:29:26 +0000

Is America ready for war for the next 100 years?

By: Ernest Lee

Ernest Lee — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 06:36:12 +0000

This race madness has surpassed disgusting. We all know the true American history, so lets stop acting like there's no issue here. There is! Are! If it makes white america feel comfortable, we'll not discuss the fact of white women gripping their purses when passing a black man in the mall. Or the racial profiling of the police. Or the disparate treatment received in court. Or the poverty stil prevelant in the black community after years of institutional racism. Or the fact that it all stems from the fact that America has a past... lets stop the lies.

By: 1

Fri, 21 Mar 2008 05:41:23 +0000

Well, i am sorry for Keri PTSD ! like Hal B said it's the people who pay the price of the government decision. Clinton the husband himself wanted to change his nationality to avoid being drafted meanwhile him and his wife voted for the War in Iraq.... now they want to run the white house again ! Supreme court should make unconstitutional for a former presidential couple to run twice. Now we have learned that obama's passport has been breached 3 times by some guys Why ? ? ?
We people should assume our choices and their consequenses. apparently the mass is not smart enough to understand what's going on.
Hope you get better Keri !

By: Marianne

Marianne — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 04:27:39 +0000

I waited 36 years to have a baby girl. From the very beginning of her wonderful life, she made my heart smile. We were as close as I have ever known a mother and daughter to be.

When she joined the ARMY and became an MP, I asked her in frustration why she would join during a time of war, she replied, “I want to be worthy of the country I grew up in. I want to deserve the country in which I live.”

My incredible daughter, Ehren, received awards, medals, and honors I was never aware of...she didn't want me to worry. She was due to be released from her military obligation one year from last December.

However, on December 9th, 2007, sometime during the late night, my daughter shot herself in the head, releasing herself from this world.

Why? I want to know. I want to know why more of our beautiful daughters and handsome young men have committed suicide while in the military than those who have died in action. Someone please tell me, Why?

Why aren't we talking more about these casualties of this insidious war?

By: Hal B

Hal B — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 03:45:23 +0000

The American people are no different than any other people it's the policies of the American Government that causes the problems. Our politicians mess up the people pay the price .... We the people are tired of being told who to hate, (axis of evil) We the people can pick our own enemies.(thanks George)

By: Stacey

Stacey — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 03:12:30 +0000

I work at a crisis line for people who have mental health and substance abuse issues. I talk with veterans on a daily basis who are in crisis. They have fought for this country and risked their lives and what do they get in return? Nothing. I have never heard one good thing about the VA. These people are taught to not talk about what they see, and it is killing them. They may not have died in war, but they are dying on the inside. It is our responsibility as fellow human beings to help them in whatever way they may need. As for people who say they knew what they were getting into to, I don't think anyone can know the horror of what goes on over there unless you have lived it yourself. By then, it is too late to back out. I know I am trying to do my part for our veterans in any way that I can. What are you doing?

By: Michael, NC

Michael, NC — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 01:07:40 +0000

Thats a good report...really good. I know I just talked to my grandfather and he has been in and out of clinics from PTWS and he says it really never gets any easier once you leave. He has gotten MINIMAL help from the VA with that and no help aiding a hearing impairment he suffered. It is pretty inconsiderate and undermining, especially since they are working their asses off to spread freedom to other countries.

By: Janna

Janna — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 00:01:44 +0000

Since you posted her comment again, I feel like I have to respond to Kathryn. The horrors of war are obvious, but are also abstract before you are faced with the sights, sounds and smells of them. I do agree that females in the military, sadly, have to expect some extent of MTS. However, I feel it is unfair to expect someone to know how they will react to combat experiences on a level too high for any non veteran to really comprehend!

By: Cindy

Cindy — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 22:46:11 +0000

Randi,
I saw your report last night in the second hour. It was great! I feel so bad for Keri that she has so many problems to deal with from this war. But at least she is getting help. There are some who aren't and are getting turned away. Hopefully we can do something to change that and all vets will get the help that they need.

Cynthia, Covington, Ga.

By: Lorie Ann, Buellton, California

Lorie Ann, Buellton, California — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 22:29:54 +0000

My thoughts go out to Keri. I think it's not only the government, but the American people themselves, who should stand beside and help every veteran that needs our support. They gave to us, now we must give back to them. Not with words, but with actions.

Lorie Ann, Buellton, Calif.

By: Teresa, Ohio

Teresa, Ohio — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 22:24:06 +0000

That was a real eye opener of a story. I believe every word of it. As you were reporting it, I was struck by how many abbreviated forms of terms the govt. uses.... Now we have MTS! I think more returning soldiers need to SPEAK OUT on the corruption and lies they have been told. The military will keep trying to cover their A**** if good soldiers dont speak up.

I think why so many returnees are having such trouble is many werent really prepared for war and combat enough to digest the scope of war.
AND the length of time it takes the VA and the govt. to help these soldiers is outrageous! SPEAK OUT, BE HEARD. ORGANIZE A GROUP... But, dont wait for your govt to help you, the govt wont help itself.

Great reporting, Randi : )